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A good man comes from God but a good woman comes from Chicago
βWe can disagree and still love each other unless your disagreement is rooted in my oppression and denial of my humanity and right to exist.β
James Baldwin
We don't talk nearly enough about "papercuts" in a relationship. Everytime there's raised voices, cruel words, lack of support, short temper, lack of affection, etc., a tiny wound is created. Not enough to make you leave, but enough to make part of you pull away & lose a
@DJStonyFinesse Yep! Then I think about the fact that I'm overall happy with life, I wouldn't change a thing and chance not having this chapter of my life
he inspires you. he makes you laugh. he reminds you how safe you are. he reminds you how important you are. he reminds you how deserving you are. thatβs how youβll know.
Respecting your partner is deeper than just staying faithful. Respecting your partner means to also respect their voice and allow them to be heard. Respect is communication. Respect is avoiding the same mistakes or things you know will make your partner mad/sad. Respecting your partner is thinking before you speak. Respecting your partner is being their number one fan. Respect is sometimes βjustβ an attempt to understand. Respect is empathy. Respect is effort. Respect is love.π«Άπ½π«Άπ½
stay patient. keep working through your trauma. keep trusting the process. release your need for acceptance. fall more in love with your own solitude. stay aligned with your purpose. the right people will find you. the safe spaces you deserve will be guided to you.