the day i came out // now
Pre hrt, Pre surgery but I have had some Dermal fillers. I wanted to come out at 17 when I knew who I was, but hid myself away until 27. Alot had changed in the past 18 months!
Perversion is an action not a physical feature.
If a person with penis takes the same actions as a person with vagina in regards to clothes then either both need to be perverted or neither as the the only difference between these two is their physical features not their actions.
To say a person shouldn't be allowed to transition until 18 is not honestly to say they couldnt know who they truly are befor 18.
It's really to say as a parent I dont want to be held in content in any way for denying my child their own identity. When 18, not legally my problem.
I'm not affirmed regarding my gender
I have gender dysphoria
I get gender affirming care
I'm now affirmed with my gender
I no longer have gender dysphoria
JK Rowling is not affirmed regarding my gender.
She has gender dysphoria towards me
She needs to mind her own!
#TransRights
Genderfying has been about effective as racialising.
We chose a collection of features to separate a group of people from the rest of humanity.
Did this help us distinguish people or segregate people? Both mabe?
Are these identities fundamental or a perspective?
#TransRights
For those arguing that I have a genetic advantage over people with vaginas let me just say you are right. I can ejaculate and you can not. BUT THAT'S IT. Anything else is not intrinsic to me having a penis or just made up. I'm on the side of pregnancy where I dont carry the baby.
letβs talk about 4 pillars of unhealthy communication. psychologist john gottman dubbed these the 4 horsemen of the relationship apocalypse, and his research suggests they are likely to increase separation: criticism, contempt, defensiveness and stonewalling.
The reason I say this is because I dont agree with the use of Appropriating gender identity as a way to silence trans people. It has been used against me befor.
Appropriating Gender Identity.
One gender cant say what the other is. If they do that its bad
But
If a cis woman says a trans woman is not a woman then she is insinuating what a man or other gender is by default as those are the only other options
Does this constitute as AGI?
Started at the gym in December. First pic is recent one me in the gyms changing room and the 2nd is me in my room back in November. I'm still very early into my transition and the most I can do rn is clothes make up and the gym. Still working towards HRT and surgeries.
'Outside of the UK, we are known as the transphobia capital of the world. We're often referred to as TERF island.'
Natasha Devon's passionate reaction as the Council of Europe condemns the UK's 'virulent attacks' on LGBTI rights.
@_NatashaDevon