@totobigtoe@recaarec@RayKump Thanks, I appreciate it, and dw you'll get there. What works for me is just trying to be objective in everyday situations and removing my own biases wherever I can.
@DisaffectedSci@KINGV0NSBURNER@RayKump I wouldn't say all that matters is ur face; it's about how well-rounded you are. Your face matters; your height matters, ur personality matters, but neither one is enough on its own.
@SpiralOffline@RayKump I never said short people didn't have it harder, just want people to stop convincing themselves that changing one feature about themselves will fix all their problems with women.
@KINGV0NSBURNER@RayKump I mean, if ur comparing it to the average male population, then yes, but if ur comparing it to ur friends or people close to u not always. And if there was an automatic filter, every tall guy would do well, and every short guy would struggle. Reality doesn't look like that.
@recaarec@RayKump U only see it as a humble brag because to you it's a feature u want so desperately, when to me it's just another thing about myself. Yes, it is nice to be tall, but it doesn't automatically mean women are going to be attracted to u cause of it.
@KINGV0NSBURNER@RayKump nah u just may be looking at a small sample size. I know plenty of guys who are relatively tall and struggle with women, and I know tall guys who do well, though they are relatively handsome; same with short guys too, but people overrate height quite a bit in my experience.