Kink isn’t always sexual.
A scene can be about sensation, challenge, connection, vulnerability, power, catharsis, playfulness, skill, ritual, or simply because tying knots is fun.
Stop assuming intimacy automatically means sex.
This must be one of the riskiest jobs in the world. I can't even imagine the skill it takes to be a chopper pilot in this condition. The guy is literally flying feets away from things that he's supposed to stay away from. The linesman is trusting the pilot with his Life 😀🚁
Perks of having a submissive boyfriend -
1. He will always take care of you. His main love language will be showing acts of service, and he will always be in service towards you. This will give your femininity the space to relax and bloom.
2. For me, healthy masculinity is submission towards the feminine. The more healthy his masculine energy is the more he will want to do things to you, to ease your mind, to pleasure you, to make you happy, to make you calm.
3. You as a woman will never feel restraint or controlled. It is feminine nature to run wild, free and untamed. It is masculine duty to provide her the space to do that. If she wants to run wild on all of the world, the masculine will make the world worthy enough for her beautiful feet.
4. He will always be considerate, responsible, and will take accountability for his mistakes and correct those mistakes for you. He will always be scared to lose the dominance and guidance you give to him because that is what will be his motivation to do better, be better, make things better. You will be his muse and his goddess/princess/queen.
5. He will be sexually open to trying anything you like because your pleasure is his reward and goal. He will let your feminine sensuality flow naturally, which will eventually heal you in many ways. Some men are so submissive, they curate their entire sexual personality for you and do everything that you want in the bedroom. That is so hot.
6. He will not just serve you, but also protect you. I personally like to associate a healthy d/s relationship with that of a relationship between a queen and a knight. A knight is always serving his queen, but he's also protecting her. When need arises, he is willing to lead and decide. He is never embarrassed to do so, he takes great honour in this instead. It is because a true submissive partner will realise how important it is for you to just do your thing out there in the world while he wholeheartedly stands behind you.
7. A submissive partner will bring out your natural motherly and caregiver nature. This is already inbuilt in women. This is also necessary to not be suppressed. Hypermasculinity which is a trauma response often suppresses natural feminine behaviour which should be exercised sometimes. A boyfriend who is submissive will heal your mind. You can be nurturing without feeling embarrassed, He will know it's a reward.
8. You don't have to worry about miscommunication, lack of understanding, lack of mutual respect and toxicity in your relationship. A submissive boyfriend, a true one, the one who holds self acceptance and pride in his submission, will always be mature enough to not let hindrances like this come in between you. If he lacks somewhere, he will learn and educate himself for you.
9. It is important for you to understand that having a submissive boyfriend is not just a kinky thing. Surely you have your needs met on the bed, but when you think out of the box, you realise how beautiful submissive men are as partners. As a woman, it is your birthright to just fuckin relax, just sit on your throne, you deserve a submissive-masculine boyfriend who never lets you lift a finger.
Now my Outlook on d/s is very in tune with healthy masculinity and healthy femininity. It may not resonate with many people. There are existing stereotypes in the world that have been well fed into our minds. Being submissive is often seen as being a loser, having a specific fetish like feet fetish is seen as "abnormal", people try to fix a dominant woman, people preach the concept of "alpha male" who hasn't even begun seeing women as people, and "beta male" who should be kept denied of a woman's touch just because they are submissive.
I could go on and on. These stereotypes degrade not just bdsm/ FLR as an art but humanity in itself. We are human, we can be what we want to be, we can be as sexually expressive as we want, and we deserve that.
Girls deserve a new outlook and a good submissive boyfriend❣️