One of the ways a woman will try to cover up her heavy sexual past is to demand a big wedding from her man.
Innocent, virgin women or women with very low sexual counts are not so big on wedding ceremonies. They are okay with parlour-setting weddings and simple weddings.
Those with a lot of baggage are often the ones who will want and demand a flashy wedding.
It is less about the marriage and more about showing off to her exes; trying to prove to them that despite everything, another man is willing to marry her and to give her a grand wedding.
It is also a way to flaunt to other women that despite her sordid past, she is still getting married.
That is when you see them doing "pepper dem" pre-wedding shoots and wearing "pepper-dem" dresses. Some will even want to wear 5 or more dresses on their wedding day.
The bigger the wedding she wants, the more likely she is trying to cover the damage she has accumulated.
When you understand the psychology of women, nothing they say or do will surprise you because you'll always be prepared for it. You will always be one step ahead.
Ikoyi registry won't take you up to 10 minutes to be legally joined together.
Do traditional marriage
Do Registry, call friends and Family to a restaurant and eat.
Go for Church blessings, not necessarily a Church Service, your Pastor can bless you in his office and other Ministers.
You can do all these in a day or 8 hours depending on distance
You are honestly married ๐