Regardless of how things ended, I think you can acknowledge that someone was once an important part of your life without having to constantly speak ill of them
I am a strong believer that the chances of giving yourself the life that you want as a woman is higher than the chances of meeting a man that is ABLE and WILLING to. Get your money up babes
Yesterday a guy told me his sister wants to be friends with me, so I asked him whatโs her profession and where she lives and he said sheโs a beautician who works from their family house (ie) nail tech, lash tech and makeup artist who works from home.
I told him no, I canโt be friends with her and he asked why and I told him the simple truth; I donโt make friends with people who are more likely to become liabilities in my life, than be helpful to me.
What am I supposed to do with a lash tech who lives in her parents house? Before you know it she will start billing me for everything as a friend because โyou be big lawyer nauโ.
My friends are people who can be productive and we can both mutually benefit from each other.
Eg my doctor friends and I exchange legal and medical services for each other and recommendations.
My lawyer friends, I donโt even need to say it. We share briefs, share clients, help each other with cases etc.
My friends in different forces (NPF, Army, Airforce, Navy etc), we help each other professionally.
Heck even my chef friends, I don ever run free legal services and she paid by cooking a weeks worth of food for me to store in my fridge.
Friendship is meant to be symbiotic and unfortunately being friends with some girls in certain hustles is an invitation to parasitism not friendship.
Tf am I supposed to even do with her or gist with her?
At least my other friends we can gist hours together about work experiences, but what do we have to gist about? How a customer didnโt want red nails? Or how a customer under charged her for fixing lashes?๐ฅฒ๐ญ๐คฃ๐คฆ๐ฝโโ๏ธ
Even if I need a beautician, I already have a bevy of trusted makeup artists, I donโt fix nails and my lashes are long naturally so all I need is mascara.
So what exactly do I need her for as a friend? Company? When I prefer being alone with my dogs than with people?
Sha her brother said I am mean but him sef none of his male friends are into such petty hustles but na me suppose befriend financial burden say na friend. LMAOOOO!
one of the things you learn when dating as an adult woman is you will meet a man who genuinely just wants to show you a good time but he does not want a relationship. this is what they call a, โgentlemanโ, and it is very important you can distinguish the difference.
I would rather cut you off completely than limit how I interact with you. I have never been a half-hearted lover or friend I have never been half anything.
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