SexEdForGuys

Sex Ed Project I Colby students researching boys, privilege & masculinity

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Welcome to 𝐒𝐞𝐱𝐄𝐝𝐅𝐨𝐫𝐆𝐮𝐲𝐬.

Most men were never taught:
• how to talk about sex
• how people experience sex
• how attraction actually works
• what’s really happening in the 𝘚𝘦𝘤𝘳𝘦𝘵 𝘞𝘰𝘳𝘭𝘥 𝘰𝘧 𝘉𝘰𝘺𝘴

We’re fixing that.
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Last day of class today got me feeling sentimental. Reminds me of that Andy Bernard quote from The Office.. something about wishing you knew you were in the good ole days before you leave them. Take time to appreciate the blessings in your life! #LDOC #grateful

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Been pondering a lot recently. By pondering I mean thinking, by thinking I mean meditating, and by meditating I mean feeding the soul. Make sure you take some time for yourself this week to reflect, it can do wonders for mental health. #zen #meditation #itscooltomeditate

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My partner and I got in a respectful disagreement about how much golf I've been playing recently. She said it's taking away from quality time with her, which is fair but wasn't my intention. We worked it out though, we're playing 9 holes as a team tomorrow. #teamwork #golfwithbae

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Went on a date the other day and I think it went well but now I'm scared to as for another... Asked my friend about it and he said to be confident and honest about my positive feelings towards her. My friend gives great advice! #gotthe2nddate #nervewracking #relationships

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Heard some music the other day that was full of degrading terms towards women. Changed the radio IMMEDIATELY. We need to stop glorifying misogyny in pop culture. #whatsupwiththat #Lmusic

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Watched the new(ish) James Gunn Superman on a plane recently. Other than it being a great cinema experience, I loved its message on Superman being human and making mistakes, cause we all do! Also the dog was awesome. #superman #wheresmydogluther

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Lowkey thinking about all the pressures social media is throwing on young men these days. It's not all about just having the fastest car or most money fellas... Focus on building relationships and good emotional habits rather than chasing just some material goods. #selfworth

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Society so focused on rankings and comparison. A friend of mine loves to say "comparison is the thief of joy." Let's just try to be the best version of ourselves this week. #onedayatatime #runyourownrace

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One of my friends said that he was going to just ghost the girl he hooked up with this past weekend.... Definitely not going to let that fly. Ghosting isn't protecting your peace, it's avoiding accountability. #letsbebetter #accountable #dontghost

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Me and four of my guy friends went to watch The Devil Wears Prada 2 the other day. We couldn't care less if it's considered a 'feminine' movie... it was FIRE. #moviesareawesome #nightonthetown #TDWP2

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What are y'alls favorite date spots??? I feel like I owe it to my partner to have something better to offer than just Netflix and Chilling... Maybe a picnic? #dateideas #letmeknow

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My buddy just texted me and said he had a tough week. I'm glad he reached out instead of bottling up negative emotions. Excited to hang out later and unpack all the things that have been bothering him. Be a shoulder to lean on today! #friendship #mentalhealthmatters

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Is Olivia Dean the greatest songwriter of our generation? Could be too early to tell... but absolutely love the messages her songs bring to the table. #oliviadeanisawesome

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Unreal week of communication with my partner. A steady stream of calls and texts can do wonders for a relationship. Never leave your partner in the dark! #communicationiskey

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Happy Monday everyone! Tell a family member or someone you care about that you love them today. #spreadlove

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@ProfAdamHoward Fantastic role model for young athletes and young people in general! Never be afraid to show your emotions, guys.

https://t.co/hn2TWPyhel

[Adam Howard @ProfAdamHoward]

Masculinity Monday

Optimization masculinity is looksmaxing in more respectable language.

Track your body. Upgrade your habits. Master your emotions. Maximize your value.

The promise is control. The cost is that the self becomes another thing to manage.

Resilient masculinity asks a different question: not how do I become impossible to reject, but how do I build a life where I can be fully human?

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Performance anxiety is way more common than you think
You’re not broken, you’re just in your head
Communication > trying to be perfect

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Most guys learn about sex from porn, not real conversations.

That��s like learning how to drive from Fast & Furious

Looks cool, not how it actually works

[Adam Howard @ProfAdamHoward]

Masculinity Monday

Strength that disappears the moment you struggle was never really strength.

Resilient masculinity makes the path back visible. You can mess up, own it, learn from it, and still belong.