@Gglory_official Wat if its form of a hall rather than bedrooms. Because I wanted it to be subdivided. One side for the farm manager and the other for the workers can the figure go down
Sometimes we say we’ve done everything the people we admire did but we’ve failed to achieve their ‘success’. Although sometimes they don’t tell us all, it might not necessarily mean that they hid something about their ‘success’. At times, it is because we try to literally apply ideas that were helpful at a time different from ours. What made my father successful may not work for me.
It is helpful to read or listen to experiences of those we admire. However this should always go along with understanding our own times and their uniqueness (if any); and understanding our own abilities. Sometimes we admire people with natural abilities and privileges that we neither have nor can achieve; where trying to follow their path can only lead to frustration. Do not imitate or consume biographies uncritically, analyse and find out what could fit you and your world.
Sometimes young people lose hope, because they’ve only seen and heard of the rosy side of those they want to be like. So they imagine that it could have been a straight path for their role models. Hence quickly getting frustrated when theirs doesn’t seem to be working out as early as hoped. It happens, but a bit rare that academic success or even excellence immediately lands you where you want. After undergrad, I tried to go to UK for kyeeyo. I was denied visas twice! Those days when you would have to line up at the UK visa office from as early as 3:00am, to be attended to starting at 9:00am. And by 9:00am, the queue would be almost 1km long! All for an opportunity, to go do unskilled work. Looking back, I’m happy that they denied me the visas.
52% of women 20-39 are child less.
All the money
All the accolades
All the fame
All the success
All the compliments for being in shape
Won’t come close to the high you experience of having kids.
Great gift God gave us is to experience that love.
Congrats to the 48% group!
Cornell suggests we make ~35,000 decisions a day.
Roughly a billion in a lifetime.
Mostly small decisions.
But we make 20–40 BIG decisions.
Marriage
Career
Friends
Kids
Where to live
Risks to take
The quality of those big decisions will determine the type of life you live.
5 reasons of why the mighty fall:
1. Hubris Born of Success:
2. Undisciplined Pursuit of More:
3. Denial of Risk and Peril 4. Grasping for Salvation
5. Capitulation to Irrelevance or Death This usually happens when you get cocky.
I used to think my father hated me because when I was little, he never attended school meetings, never bought me toys, never hugged me in public like other fathers did. He was always dirty from construction work, always tired and always angry.
My mother on the other hand…..
Some things are about basic common sense, not even political wisdom. Your bosses, who must be having a lot more, hardly display their wealth. Only those who have visited their homes know how their houses look like. It is 40 years now, but many of us have no idea how Museveni’s house looks like. Even when you search the internet, you hardly find one clear picture. They only show their local cows as their wealth. They move around in one colour of shirt all year, or only in military uniforms - not conspicuous designer clothes. We don’t know any private car of theirs. And you come in splashing posh cars, buildings, expensive designer clothes … Do you even think?
MEN this ok. I support it. Muve ku gasilusiru gaakuno!! Miyaayu
Look for your girls who are still virgins and are still tamable, teachable and have a willingness to submit.
Most woman who are hurt by this age gap in this video are old and beaten down by life. They have been seeing different men from age 11 and they’re now 30+ with no man to commit to them. They find this testimony an affront to their status quo. They wish it could be them who got this chance.
18 , 19 , is a good age to start with. In fact most biblical scholars say Mary Mother of Jesus was around 16 yrs of age when she was to be bethroned. In many cultures this age group.
Most of the people yapping have their mothers who got married at the same exact age and they succeeded because they were fresh.
Men , stop falling for social media hooliganism.
Marry a girl who deserves your dowry. A girl who has known no man as the Bible describes Mary. A girl whose body’s still fresh to carry children even if you choose to give birth yr after yr. A girl whose womb is still sacred and has never experienced any abortion.
Vva ku misege gyakuno egyakaddiwakadiwa full of reproductive challenges caused to them by emergency pills they consumed like chocolates every weekend after meeting a different man.
I support you Eng Brian.