@PaulnotBrian That’ll be me then - hate upper body exercises as I have no upper body strength but my legs are strong so I’m quite happy exercising them. Yes I know that means I should prioritise upper body ti strengthen it but realistically I won’t!
@scriptwren It became a family tradition when the kids were young that they had birthday cake for breakfast in their birthday.
If you look at the nutritional values of many breakfast cereals it’s not a lot different.
@BumblingDad83 It’s easy to think you’re the only one because it feels like you are, after almost a year I have no answers & feel like I’m going backwards. The unrelenting grief is crippling. Here if you need to offload at any point.
@MrJamesMay Most agricultural land is valued really quite low but the equipment used, combines for example are easily £500k each.
If the farm is large it probably has several pieces of expensive machinery & equipment & the value for inheritance will be predominantly equipment & buildings
@KatieAndGrumeti Don’t be terrified - if he doesn’t make contact you are in exactly the place you were before you found him on Facebook & if he does it could turn out well or just make you realise you have no connection - better to try than always wonder what if. You’ve got this.
Good luck.
@grumpybutkind1 That was about the age my daughter started to inform her father he’d better be nice to her as it would be her paying for a nursing home & no she would not look after him she’d rather pay someone else!
Pretty sure any offer of help has since been withdrawn due to ridiculous cost!
@Gellyfsh@BrownSquirrel Do you have any nice photos of his motorbike(s) etc that you could get a canvas of or commission a painting, or just a collage type canvas of lots of them?
@AmboClaire I hear you - I’m in much the same boat. Already paid in enough years for full state pension but naff all other pension income so just covering basic bills will be an issue at the current levels let alone if they increase. Not sure I’ll ever be able to retire.
@Matt_Pinner No - always questioning whether I should trust them if I didn’t know where they were or who they were with would destroy my mental health. If they didn’t respect me enough to be faithful that’s it - over, however difficult that would be.
@Ant_RTW@YPLAC I guess the driver thinks the double yellow lines don’t apply if you park that side of them.
That is ridiculous and totally selfish obstructing the entire pavement & possibly the road if a van needs to pass.
@scriptwren I do this- can’t cope with the cage thing. My dentist has now said an x-ray can be done without it - slightly higher radiation but as it’s not needed often will not be an issue