A poor Man doesn't't deserve an erection.
But when he is rich society begins to dictate to him how to use the erection his financial Status has afforded him. 😁
Different roles are to be played, different genders meet, now each is expected to play their roles to the best of their ability, there will definitely be role-switching every now and then, but both most stick to their core roles.
To the man, he is to provide and protect. To the woman, to nurture and be submissive.
You can’t cheat nature by trying to assign these roles wrongly or downplay it as a mere social construct.
The obsession with wanting someone to regret losing you is wild. Sometimes, people lose you and still sleep just fine. You weren’t the main character in their story and that’s okay.
No one really checks if the man is okay, they check if he’s still useful. Still providing. Still solving. Still carrying. Still showing up. And the moment he slows down, everybody notices what he stopped doing before they notice what he might be going through.
How many women who own cars can still find men who don't own cars attractive?
What about those with 100m in their bank accounts, have you seen them address guys with low networth?
You guys don't understand that your life is only important as a man to a Nigerian woman as long are you're financially stronger and physically stronger than her?
Why are you begging her when you've been able to overcome the yoke of being looked down on?
A man never forgets who used his lowest moment against him. Struggle already humbles you enough, having someone weaponize what you trusted them with changes you. That’s why some men become quieter after hard seasons. It’s not always pride. Sometimes they just learned the cost of being vulnerable with the wrong person.
Dear Women…
Some men didn’t just become quiet. They got tired of explaining themselves like every concern needed a defense attorney. Ask one question and suddenly you’re defending your tone, revisiting old arguments, answering things you never asked, and somehow apologizing for bringing it up. So eventually, a man learns a simpler vocabulary: “Maybe.” “Okay.” “We’ll see.” Not because he has nothing to say, but because peace became more valuable than being understood.