Nowadays, I’m okay with whatever is happening. I’ve stopped complaining, stopped forcing outcomes, and stopped expecting life to move according to my plans. Whatever comes, comes. Whatever leaves, leaves. I adjust, I learn, and I keep moving. There’s a strange peace in no longer fighting everything you cannot control.
Every child is born with a natural boldness because fear has not yet been taught to them. Much of what later becomes fear is learned through experience, environment, warning, failure and conditioning. We are born with light, openness and spontaneity, then life begins teaching us what to avoid. That does not mean the emotion of fear disappears. Fear is human. It can arise instinctively in anyone.
A poor Man doesn't't deserve an erection.
But when he is rich society begins to dictate to him how to use the erection his financial Status has afforded him. 😁
The obsession with wanting someone to regret losing you is wild. Sometimes, people lose you and still sleep just fine. You weren’t the main character in their story and that’s okay.
Different roles are to be played, different genders meet, now each is expected to play their roles to the best of their ability, there will definitely be role-switching every now and then, but both most stick to their core roles.
To the man, he is to provide and protect. To the woman, to nurture and be submissive.
You can’t cheat nature by trying to assign these roles wrongly or downplay it as a mere social construct.
How did you think prices of House Rent increased so sharply in Nigeria?
It is majorly about the greed of our countrymen. Jobless people who created jobs for themselves through 'Agency" work, due to the poor regulation of that sector, which is supposed to be handled by only trained and registered Valuers, approached landlords to give them free hands to bring in tenants. They approached fraudsters who were ready to pay any amount, usually inexperienced young boys with money they never worked legitimately, with time, for, to rent those houses. They put it higher than the actual value of the rents based on facilities in the property and also used that mechanism to extort percentages of their agency fee. Since it looked attractive to the landlords, they let it stay. Landlords don't have access to Fraudsters, it is agents and some Lawyers who are approached that bring them in. When they inflate these rents and the fraudster goes broke, he leaves. They won't decrease and legitimate workers who are desperate because of housing deficit would have to cough out what they don't earn to pay rents.
Dear Women…
Some men didn’t just become quiet. They got tired of explaining themselves like every concern needed a defense attorney. Ask one question and suddenly you’re defending your tone, revisiting old arguments, answering things you never asked, and somehow apologizing for bringing it up. So eventually, a man learns a simpler vocabulary: “Maybe.” “Okay.” “We’ll see.” Not because he has nothing to say, but because peace became more valuable than being understood.