@Ser_Lexy@Las_h_ley Submission is not just this cos if it were, it'd be mutual.
The wife and husband make decisions and are both to be respected.
You're being dishonest right now.
Words have meanings for a reason.
@ReddCinema Their argument in his defense always goes
"He didn't say it"
If you show them evidence
"Okay he said it but it was taken out of context"
Show them the whole clip
"This is America, freedom of speech is a thing"
Many Nigerian women are truly with no self respect. Nigerian men are definitely lucky folks.
Not a single person in the comments even reasoned that the Seun (If it's a real story) forgot he could make his food for work too
Including the advisor in the lame story @Officialregha
I have these two former colleagues of mine, Seun and Adaora.
Seun is married, and I also know his wife because we attended the same university.
I didn't have any issue with Adaora until she started bringing food for Seun at the office.
It started with, "Oh Seun, I brought you food today."
Before we say jack, it became, "Seun, what would you like me to prepare for you tomorrow?"
At that point, I knew where the whole thing was heading.
Seun was already feeling uncomfortable and didn't know how to handle it, so he came to meet me.
I asked him, "Why doesn't your wife prepare food for you to take to work?"
He replied, "My brother, I don use style tell her before, but she no even make any attempt."
I told him, "No worry, make I handle am."
I called his wife.
"Ayo, how far now?"
"Ah, Mr. Olamide! Good afternoon, sir."
After exchanging pleasantries, I got straight to the point.
"Ayo, you know say I be your person. I honestly think it's a good idea for you to start preparing food for Seun to take to work. I noticed that two different ladies bought him lunch twice last week."
She shouted "Ah!"
I replied, "What do you mean by 'Ah'? If you're packing food from home for him, do you think he'll even have room to be eating food from other women? Before you know it, one of them will start cooking for him regularly."
Within one week, my guy was showing up at the office every day with homemade food.
Sometimes they would pack some snacks for me too.
That was how Adaora's food ministry and Co. came to an end.
Just go for men with sculpted bodies – men who take care of themselves really good, and I'm telling you it would be impossible not to find it really attractive.
Especially for the V lines.
Unless you're just not into men.
Leave pot-bellied, flabby and no muscles men alone.
The longer you postpone the life you want, the more responsibilities accumulate, optionality shrinks, and what once felt temporary becomes your permanent life.