Hardest pill I had to swallow this past year was learning that no matter how much you love someone, no matter how much you care for them, they can & will turn their back on you & there’s nothing you can do but accept it & keep moving on. 🖤
if my love wasn't enough to change your choices, i hope it was enough to remind you that there was once someone who chose you completely, even when it wasn't easy
every time i get hurt i decide to change and become a more distant person, but suddenly i go back being talkative and kind as if nothing had happened. and that basically sums up the kind of person i am
When people don’t consider you in the same way you consider them, let them go. There’re actually so many people in the world that can match your energy and love you the way you love.
my intuition is so crazy. I can literally have no evidence of what's going on, but still know there's something happening behind my back and I'm always right.
Breadcrumbs taste delicious to someone who’s starving.
I’m not starving for love or attention, so l will never accept mediocre energy, confused emotions or half hearted efforts.
You either come correct or do not come at all, because over here i am loved, and i know what love is.
Some men lose good women because they treat relationships like everything has to make sense to them. “I don’t have to buy flowers to prove I love you.” Maybe not… but if your woman likes flowers, buy them. If she enjoys going on dates, take her out. Relationships aren’t just about what matters to you. Sometimes it’s about showing up for what matters to the person you love.
Narcissists love you when you admire them, obey them, or boost their image. The moment you challenge them, set a boundary, or call them out? The affection DISAPPEARS. Their “love” is conditional. Based on what you do for THEM.
If someone only "loves" you when you do exactly what they want and withholds that love when you're not behaving "correctly". That's not love. It's control.
Nothing will ruin a relationship for me faster than watching your partner showing up for other people in a way they don't show up for you. You have the capacity, just not for our relationship? no thanks.
Goes for friendship too!