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[Big Wandssss 🪬 @ShopArdith]

70% of Nigerian Men are autistic as adults and they don’t even know. They just know they are aggressive & can’t express themselves properly then society has helped them to think they’re egocentric when they have an underlying illness .😷

[yimika. @yimikaaaa]

no shade, but i don't care to be in people's lives anymore. i'm pretty sure y'all noticed how distant i've became. i just don't got time for wishy washy ass behavior anymore & it takes nothing for me to never speak to certain people again

[truly.sther🌟 @trulysther]

If you don't let people experience consequences of their actions towards you , you will remain a safe space for their worst behavior.

[Alejandra @AlejandraM78461]

Al CASARSE, una MUJER debe vivir mejor de lo que vivía sola.

Nunca PEOR.

[feyisayo 💸 @feyiszn]

I really dislike the concept of “we experience people differently” because what have I done for you to be horrible to me but kind to the next person?? 😭

[feyisayo 💸 @feyiszn]

I’m usually the person that tries to fix bonds and friendships, but lately I’ve been letting people stand on how they feel. We never have to talk again. That’s perfectly fine by me.

[yimika. @yimikaaaa]

once you cut people out of your life, you need to become very comfortable with them talking bad and making things up about you. bc they will fill your silence and your absence with stories that make them feel better about losing access to you. people rarely take accountability when it’s easier to paint you as the villain.

[jezz @JezziiB]

No girl is born dreaming of motherhood. That idea is taught. From dolls to toy strollers, girls are conditioned early for caregiving and reproduction, while boys aren’t. We’re taught this is our purpose, yet the risks of pregnancy and childbirth, even death, are rarely acknowledged. This isn’t instinct. It’s social conditioning.

[feyisayo 💸 @feyiszn]

one of the healthiest habit anyone could learn is training yourself not to talk too much.

[‏ً @omgsidewalks]

PLEASE before you offend people, prepare your mind for their choice of retaliation. You’re not the only one who’s crazy.

[Nadia @thegenesisbl0ck]

The more a mother enjoys her motherhood, the more a child enjoys their childhood.

These two are inextricably linked.

[222 @DerikcaDesiree]

I was their friend, they weren't mine is a big lesson you learn in life.

[Sophia ❣️ @KeruboSk]

It took me a while, but I finally realized what triggers my toxicity. It's disrespect. I can be chill, fun, easy to get along with. I can vibe with anybody. But the second I feel disrespected, everything in me shifts. My peace goes out the window, my patience disappears, and that soft version of me turns sharp real quick. I'm self-aware enough to know I'm a good woman. I'm kind, I'm genuine, I'm understanding, and I always try to lead with love. But that's exactly why disrespect hits so deep... because I know how much grace I give before I ever lose it. When I snap, it's never random, it's a reaction. What you put in is what you get out of me. Still, I'm learning. Learning not to let people pull me out of character.

Learning that not everyone deserves a response. Learning that peace is better than proving a point. Because growth isn't about never being triggered... it's about recognizing what triggers you and protecting yourself before you get there. Know your triggers.

Guard your peace. Stay away from the people, places, and situations that force you to become someone you've worked too hard to outgrow.

[feyisayo 💸 @feyiszn]

I pray I meet new people next year, meaningful genuine connections.

[Mambo Italiano @mamboitaliano__]

Dear baby Jesus

I don’t ask for much

Just grant me, in 2026, the calm and the nonchalance of this girl to face the fires of life

That would be enough for me 🔥

[Big Wandssss 🪬 @ShopArdith]

When we get to January 1st, please introduce yourself again. You have no idea who I am. I’m just trying to get a better understanding of myself after this incredibly long year.

[Eniolaa @Ennyfromdblock]

Come to think of it, I’ve never fallen out with someone and regretted it or felt like I needed them back because I always give my 100% and hold on until there’s nothing left to give.

[Big Wandssss 🪬 @ShopArdith]

My seyi ❤️ #nsnv

[Big Wandssss 🪬 @ShopArdith]

@tearnluv Real!!!!!

[ojurire @tearnluv]

Spirit lead me where my funds are without borders.