@KingGeorgeX So, just as times changed for finances, so can they for surname adoption. I think advocating for people to change to the dynamics of modern times in one aspect yet looking to retain traditional values in another is inconsistent and borderline selfish in a way.
@Araoye75 So is a woman. Why are you hanging on to having the woman change her name when the simple solution is to split bills which would relieve pressure off you and both of you keep the surnames youโve identified with all your life.
@ukandi_one@NoirConstructs Sounds like the simple solution is to have both of you keep your names, and you donโt have to chest bills on your own. She does not have to hoard her money, yโall split bills and both of you keep your names. Whatโs the issue?
@Jason_0J@cjakunyili@Fegish1@NoirConstructs Yโall love 50/50 for finances until it comes to also splitting domestic chores, childcare and surnames. Suddenly you donโt believe in 50/50.
Disgrace.
@Fegish1@PeacefulBellige@NoirConstructs But you just called her the love of your life. So the love of your life, the one you claim to love deeply canโt keep her last name, and also give it to some of the children you both have?
โLove of my lifeโ - only when it applies to splitting finances ๐
@kingucg2@AmarachiRh36397@thatguyinTKY@NoirConstructs Yes, and privileges too. Which means she doesnt have to change her surname to yours and doesnt have to submit to you if sheโs also shouldering the responsibility of providing.
โResponsibility without privilege/authority is slaveryโโฆyall are the ones that keep telling women that.
@thatguyinTKY@peachwest@NoirConstructs But youโre the one that just claimed that it was apparently โemasculatingโ men. If it truly wasnโt an issue, then why would men feel emasculated by it? Youโre flip flopping.
@thetransportero@kvng0205 @NaijjaQueen lmao see how you annihilated that deluded and vile animal, I donโt think he can ever recover from this. Pls have mercy ๐