I promise you, you gotta train your boundaries to be stronger than your soft heart and your mind to be stronger than your feelings because whatever disrespect you tolerate will continue. Removing yourself from any table where respect is no longer being served is self-care.
As you get older.. you should wanna carry yourself differently. Your mindset should be different. Your morals should be different. Your choices should be different. It’s certain things you can entertain & certain things you have no business entertaining anymore +
Shoutout to the women who are going into the new year with a different energy. To the women with goals, boundaries and happiness, and who won’t allow anyone to compromise either. The women who will give themselves grace, and will stand on business. I hope you have an amazing day.
The best advice I have for others based on the lessons I’ve learned this year: when the future is uncertain, really invest in yourself. The only thing certain about your future is that you will be in it.
You deserve a calm love with someone who is good for your mental health and nervous system. Someone who is your safe space, your best friend, and brings peace to your soul during stressful times.
May you attract a divine partner who is as loving, deep, passionate, sexual, soulful and spiritual as you. Someone who is intimate, open and vulnerable with you in every single sense. Someone who is so completely compatible with you, it's like you both manifested each other.