The Lord of Kailash conquered death, burned lust to ashes & stood beyond time itself, but love remained the one force he never wished to conquer, for he could not bring himself to part from Sati's body.
A woman who can wear her hair up and be just as or more beautiful - this is a sign of superiority. When the face can stand on its own, no cover from falling hair - that’s impressive. You’ve probably got a model, hair up or down.
Immature men look for mothering from their girlfriends when they should be looking for a woman who contains the Great Father: grounded in herself, principled, expresses her yes/no very clearly. Immature women look for a father in their boyfriends when they should be looking for a man who contains the Great Mother - safety, warmth, cares for himself and others, holds and sustains life.
I love abrasive, crass, bitter, mistrustful women who use their off-putting attitudes as armor for their deeply kind and wounded hearts, and so should you
"stay with them through ups & downs."
downs are NOT:
-cheating
-disrespect
-abuse: verbal, mental, physical, spiritual
-manipulation
-gaslighting
-control
downs are:
-financial hardships
-health issues
-tragic death/injury
-rough points in a relationship (arguing, lack of
intercourse, losing the "spark")
-trouble keeping/finding individuality in a relationship
stop normalizing putting yourself through trauma trying to prove to somebody that you love them
Keep your life louder than the relationship.
When you make a man your world, your peace becomes conditional on his behavior. Your confidence lives in his validation. Your happiness depends on whether he stays.
That’s the fastest way to forget who you are.
A woman grounded in her own life doesn’t need to shrink to fit someone else’s. She keeps a pulse outside of the relationship and in her friends, her rituals, her self-discipline, her joy.
She still has her mornings, her routines, her plans. She belongs to her life before she belongs to anyone in it.
When your world revolves around a man, every argument feels like an earthquake. But when your world is built on you, you stay steady, no matter who walks around in it.
Keep your life louder so that love adds to your peace, not replaces it.
Low energy people are often people who are out of touch with their anger.
From a biological perspective, anger is one of the most powerful ways to mobilize energy.
Anger causes us to release adrenaline, noradrenaline, and cortisol, which results in a surge of physical energy and mental focus.
A lot of people lose access to this source of energy by identifying as “not an angry person.”
Usually because they’ve come to believe that anger is inherently bad.
But no emotion is inherently bad. It’s a question of how it’s directed.
Anger often takes a destructive form because it is expressed unconsciously.
When our anger springs from an unconscious place it tends to be expressed unskilfully.
Ironically, this is why those who identity as “not an angry person” are often the least skilful with their anger.
They don’t want to admit feeling it, so they hide it from their consciousness and it comes out in veiled, petty, backhanded ways.
When anger is made conscious, it can be recruited in service of our values.
It can be used to call out and fight against injustice in the outside world.
It can also be used as fuel for transforming aspects of our inner world that are out of kilter with our values.
To reclaim our anger is to reclaim an important source of energy and can be a key part of becoming a more vital and alive person.
Pregnancy sucks physically but on a spiritual level it’s actually such a cool thing to carry and create life inside you, I genuinely think men are lesser beings than us because they will never get to do it, it’s the closest thing to being a God, creating a child in your own image
Masculinity is very much manufactured and taught, men don’t have a natural role outside of existing as spare genetic material so they created one. But each man’s idea of what that looks like is slightly different and inherited from whatever male figure taught him what masculinity is. Being a very hierarchical, rigid, and outward creature that lacks interiority, he will not question it. He will become the example his father taught him. He does not care about “breaking generational curses” he cares about surviving and this is the only way he knows how to. Almost every man, with the exception of a few greats, is irreparably and psychologically raped by their father. It’s mind rape all the way down. You can’t fix him.
*Indian Middle Class Culture to be precise
Unfortunately, if Bapuji is a salaryman without gao ki Jameen to sell and Beta has even an iota of shame, he will himself morph into a grindjeet incel
Being an Indian Incel is a state of mind which comes from constant worry of slipping into lower middle class, from 2 BHK to 1, from Alto to Splendour
@its_ovari_da Ofc she is exaggerating too she has to save skin as well after his death. I had supposed he loved her alot n couldn’t bear the truth. Now it is just politics
Kya hi bolen
>gets arrange married
>falls in bollywood ishqwalalove .jpg
>wife has a past
>kms over it
Personally know such guys who get destructive over W past, good men but think in Madonna-Wh0re complex.
Idk where it comes from or what can be done to overcome this.
Manav Sharma Suicide Case: It is evident that Manav was under extreme influence of alcohol. It is also evident that his wife Nikita made desperate pleas to his sister to stop him who asked her to ignore.
Their dispute was over Nikitas affair before marriage. There is no proof of anything after marriage. There were talks of mutual consent divorce. Manav had herself dropped Nikita at her home on the day he died.
He states in his video that it's not the first time he is attempting this. There are no clear allegations on how his wife harrassed him as well.
Abetment to suicide is a serious charge having extremely strict punishment. From the facts available in public in this case, there is no instigation here. Infact the lady made desperate attempts to save his life.
Can't blame a woman if facts clearly prove otherwise. If it is wrong to always blame a man if a woman ends her life & subject him to criminal trial for a crime he didn't do, it is also wrong to always blame a woman if a man ends life & subject her to criminal trial for a crime she didn't do
This is my personal opinion & I have to answer my conscience
Let the authorities investigate & hope truth prevails.
So now the Chola bronze statue of Parvati is “Persian in Origin” 🤦♂️
Women were rarely depicted in large sculptures or even as a central figure in Persian art!