I sit quietly and realize that God has been taking care of me this whole time, maybe not in luxurious ways, maybe not with an easy life. But through protection, provison, good health, surviving hard days and always having just enough to keep going.
hear me out, for your own sanity as a man, learn to want women without needing them.
don't chase them, don't beg, don't overthink mixed signals. if she's interested, you'll know. if she isn't, you'll survive. if she stays, beautiful. if she leaves, life continues.
i don't know why, but lately, most men have made women the center of their lives.
you can talk to women, have fun, take your shot but don't let your emotions rise and fall based on who texted back, who viewed your story or who rejected you. stop carrying women-related matters on your head.
there are enough real problems in this world already. women don't have to become another one.