@diekololami314@yxng2233@yourclips1 I’m a lady, not a man. And I said ‘some’, not ‘all.’ Maybe you’re part of the other some who doesn’t and that’s totally fine.
crase, y’ll. How would the guy who isn’t your spec but who also gets to be billed anyhow be my brother? The friendship ended btw. So, yeah, I ask for things that I or my brothers can get for me..so I don’t end up giving you the power to brag or claim ownership of me.
I don’t find this disturbing because I’ve got brothers who are genuinely working hard for themselves, but because I’ve seen and been with women who are doing so well for themselves, and also don’t think like this. They’d bill you reasonably, but also chest yours. Story time…👇🏾👇🏾
Years ago, a girl in my area started talking with me. She said there’s a guy she’s seeing that she’s always asking for money but she doesn’t really like him because he’s not her spec. My brother walked in on us one day and she introduced him to me as the ‘boyfriend.’ I nearly
@yxng2233@yourclips1 Is it far different in other places?
Maybe it’s just worse here.Some Nigerian men say having girls who bill them is a motivation to do better, yeah. So, if I don’t bill you, I’d either be tagged an understanding girlfriend or I don’t motivate you enough. Make it make sense please
@Raye_Hg I don’t think any reasonable man would opt for a 50/50 with his partner. So many men enjoy providing for their women. A woman should support when and where she can, especially in finance. It shouldn’t be an obligation. I rather remain single than do 50/50.
@AweniOnibata Is this a joke? She’d come up with something??
The pride and arrogance is topnotch😏
She can just go to anywhere market where they’d open bale for wedding gowns and pick one there. She’s sick
@playmaker_j@yabaleftonline All of these ideologies doesn’t guarantee a good relationship at last oh.
I’ve also heard someone say that my man should love me more than I love him. What difference does it make? Why don’t we just love each other as much as we can until the wheels fall off?
I withdrew mine to give to you because you begged that you had nothing on you. Now, you want to pay bit by bit. So, she’d never get this part of me again in the friendship. No matter how bad the situation is, I rather gift than lend it to her.
You think you’re smart? Nahhh, you lost the friendship.
My friend asked me to lend her 100k to add pay their rent. The plan was to pay back by month end. It’s been over 7 months now and madam would flare up whenever I ask for my money. She said, I’d be paying you small small.’…
That means she’d be sending 2k, 5k to me. I told her to pay everything when she’s ready. During a conversation, she said she’s got funds locked in her Cowrywise since January and she don’t have plans to withdraw it till next year. Mind you, I gave her this money in April.
Ngl, women make exceptions for men they like. They don’t draft and present one sided rules. Again, never be overly free around your partner that you throw away basic hygienic rules and manner. Trust me, they take note of those careless habits. Some of you just do shameless things