Am I loving you right?
Am I making you feel safe with me? 🤍
Do you feel heard when you talk to me?
Is there anything I do that hurts you without knowing?
Am I giving you the attention you need?
Do you feel respected in this relationship?
What can I do to love you better?
Am I communicating clearly with you?
Do you feel secure about us? Are valid questions.
Relationship hard, even if you don't want to overthink, situations will test you.
Even if you are innocent, the weight of the trust issues mentally ends everything faster.
She was at my place one morning when my guy visited and asked that i escort him to somewhere.. after few mins, we left.
We spent almost the whole day out, in the evening I came bck alone..only to find her still at the same spot she was when I left in the morning, and the whole place had this fishy smell...
Poverty is expensive in a way that people don’t understand. If you can’t afford a dentist you have long term teeth damage. Not affording healthy food means poor health. Not affording ‘good schools’ means missed opportunities. It is a compounding cycle.
This is why you shouldn’t allow yourself to be gaslighted for being stingy with your money.
It is your money, protect it. When you hit zero, these same people will blame you for being reckless with your money.