You’re a lazy, trifling bitch if you leave grocery carts all over the parking lot instead of putting them back where they belong. Idgaf what your excuse is either.
Ligature marks, that posture, and 20 pregnancies from the age of 13 with no medical intervention and you’re ready to blame her.
If the patriarchy had an actual dick you would be gagging on it.
in a alternate universe , they wouldn’t have mismanaged her and kept the momentum up after this instead of MAKING her wait 8 months and put out a different album from her original debut 2 years later .. COLUMBIA AND PARKWOOD I’m on yall ass
she championed a colorist, alienated fans, and now is trying to pull out. when the movie flops, other Black storytellers will pay the price because studios will be even more resistant to platforming them, which is ofc not fair to everyone else but inevitable.
33 year old woman who had 20 kids (4 dead). She reportedly started having kids at 13 years old. One set of twins that died were born 9 months after another set of twins. I am thinking the mom is a victim too.
I don't think it's a money matter because having your own money doesn't automatically address the underlying issues, which from my POV, are about agency and autonomy. who gets to decide how resourced you are and what you can or can't do with those resources?
Dark-skinned Black women and Nigerian fans of the books were called haters for pointing out that casting Amandla Stenberg as the lead character and stacking the main lead cast with American actors, was bad optics, and Tomi said she was fine with all of of it, now look...
The way she's carefully gauging, calculating, choosing her responses carefully & apologizing "I wasn't trying to upset you".
It's not only women without resources who have to edit themselves like so. Yes having her own money gives her options. Does she have autonomy tho? Agency?
It’s really hard coming to terms with the fact that I’m 28 and having to mourn the life that I envisioned and literally nothing going to plan and feeling like I’m running out of time
That’s actually such a nutty thing to say to someone just because they had a baby too late for YOUR taste. I buy gifts for friends that I probably talk to once a year on special occasions. I cannot imagine being that cruel.
The worst part about being unemployed is having time to do things, but no money to do so. The worst thing about being employed is having money to do things but no time to do so.