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Should you warn the narcissistโs new supply?
No.
Why not?
Because the narcissist has already told them that โyouโre crazy.โ Theyโve said youโll probably try to warn them. If you warn the new supply, youโll be playing right into the narcโs bullshit. You wonโt be believed anywayโฆ
Realizing that youโre incompatible with someone (because they donโt meet your BASIC standards of courtesy, respect and reciprocation) and choosing to walk away instead of forcing it/blaming yourself/fantasizing about their potential is a superpower. Look how much youโve grown.
The idea of him thinking to himself, โMan, I could do anything to her and sheโd still want me..โ eventually made my stomach turn. I found the shred of dignity I had left and permanently ended it, and Iโm telling you that you can too. I promise you that you can.
A narcissist is angry and confused when you stand up to them. In their minds you've taken so much of their abuse you should be willing to take more. After all, it's all about them, you are supposed to be thankful to them.