So our system consists of mostly 4 (ish) people (ish)
We have Tal (ey/(th)em), our current host, who doesn't really have an age of ey're own and so just uses the body's age. Ey joined us around fall 2019.
@chaoticgaythey The one at 20 was actually so traumatic we went from 2 to 3 and that basically destroyed any chance of addressing it until we were finally able to get therapy...at which point it came back
@sisi7304 Mhm basically stuff was weirdly jumbled but not fully mixed and it just didn't feel like one cohesive self I guess like if you mix water and oil together almost?
@sisi7304 So when Dani thought she was alone K would occasionally force her out and while they were originally pretty scared of what was going on they each realized somebody else was there and would try to talk to confirm that and then learn to live together
"You're such a good ally"
I'm not an ally. I'm part of a system. I just have people I work with following me and I do not want to explain to a 50 year old professor what plurality is
A huge reason we feel the need to hide plural stuff so much is from assholes like Kyle openly mocking us and how a really shitty abusive ex just outed us as plural on twitter and we could barely keep it quiet. It was fucking terrifying having that out of any of our control
Honestly the fact so few people realized we were plural here when we weren't really actively hiding it and just not making top level posts is kinda funny because we've known and been working together for 10 years