RETURN TO SILENCE
The moment you realize that you are not living your life,
The moment you discover that you are sacrificing your health, wealth and welfare for a woman and you get nothing in return,
The moment you learn that you have become something else, an exhausted man, worn-out, used, haggard, a shadow of what you used to be,
That is when the reality begins to kick in.
You are a MANIPULATED MAN.
A MANIPULATED MAN has lost everything he owned.
His health, his sleep, his energy, his goal, his vision.
His woman is only warm to him when she wants to benefit, but becomes colder when it doesn't serve her.
Once this reality kicks in, a manipulated man returns to silence.
That silence terrifies both the manipulated man and his manipulative wife.
Because silence will become a mirror that tells the man THE TRUTH.
The manipulated man is terrified of the truth because truth will pierce his heart like a sharp sword slicing his pound of flesh.
The truth is that he has been living a lie, and this is the truth he fears.
But it is the truth.
The woman is also scared that the truth will restrict her access to the man, block benefits and wake up the man from his sleep.
It is here that the woman will tell the man,
"Your silent treatment is the reason I don't respect you anymore."
"If you continue treating me with your silence, I will leave, and you will never find a wife like me again."
"I am the only woman who understands you; no other woman can tolerate your silent treatment."
All these guilt-trips and gaslighting to keep the man under a tight leash of ignorance and manipulation.
And the man will become guilty, and attempt to go back to the old self,
The old manipulated man who chose comfortable silence instead of confrontation to keep the peace, and he continues to suffer in his peace, while tolerating manipulation because he is so terrified to return to silence.
DON'T BE AFRAID of SILENCE, because silence is where your truth lives.
Silence makes you see your shadow and observe its depth.
Silence makes a man see his flaws and his weaknesses.
Silence makes you connect with your spiritual truthfulness.
Silence makes you see who truly values you and who says she values you just because of the emotional, psychological and financial access you gave them.
RETURN TO SILENCE,
You will see what your ordinary self never saw.
SILENCE is the antidote to EMOTIONAL MANIPULATION.
#ManDay
I have some advice for young men newly employed,
When you get employed:
โข Be grateful to God, your parents, your mentors and your boss for this opportunity
โข Work hard
โข Respect your employer
โข Adhere to your employer's rules and protocols
โข Embrace the mission and vision of the employer
However, if working for your employer becomes unbearable due to other reasons,
โข Quit respectfully
โข Follow the procedures of quitting as written in your contract or employment letter
โข Return your employer's resources in your custody
โข Handover politely and thank your employer for giving you an opportunity
โข Leave with a clean conscience
Don't be chaotic, abusive and contemptuous on your way out.
Don't think you are smarter than your employer.
The employer you are disrespecting gave you a livelihood when you were seeking a footing and direction.
The employer may not have paid you to your satisfaction, but be polite.
Don't go bad mouthing your employer, speaking nastily, and broadcasting your foul mouth while disclosing what is considered private policies, programs, products or services of your former workplace.
Leave courteously.
This way, you open room for better opportunities, newer networks and better leverage.
Don't be a rude employee. Other employers will fear giving you opportunities in the future because they don't trust you.
Be courteous when you close the door behind you, the universe will be kind to you on your way out.
At 23 years old, you got so much time
At 28 years old, you got so much time
At 35 years old, you got so much time
At 40 years old, you got so much time
At 48 years old, you got so much time
At 55 years old, you got so much time
At 63 years old, you got so much time
At 80 years old, you got so much time
NO MATTER YOUR AGE.. YOU HAVE TIME
TAKE THIS JULY CHALLENGE:
-Delete the porn apps
-No alcohol for 30 days
-Eat real food, start with eggs
-Drink water like it's your job
-Be in bed before the clock hits midnight
-Walk until your thoughts get quiet
-Drop and do 100 push-ups every single day
-Skip breakfast, your body thanks you later
-Write something, anything, 100 words minimum
-Find 3 reasons you have no right to complain
Don't just save this and do nothing.
Prove you are not like most men.
The best sources of selenium:
โข Eggs
โข Seaweed
โข Fish and seafood
โข Meat
โข Organ meats
โข Garlic
โข Pumpkin seeds
โข Cashew Nuts
#FoodFriday
Men,
MENTAL WELLNESS |
Stay away from other men's wives.
Even if she is a widow,
Keep off.
Have self-respect and respect your boundaries.
Guard your mental frame.
#MasculinitySaturday
Avoid eating food at events, especially events to which you have not been invited.
When invited to eat, just say, "Thank you, I am currently fasting."
- Drink water
- Continue fasting
- Cook your food at home
The problems with food at events:
- They are cooked in seed oils. To make it worse, they recycle the already rancid oils.
- The water for cooking may not be good for human use.
- The source of the cooked food is unknown. The meat could be infected with anthrax or Bovine Spongiform Encephalopathy (mad cow disease).
- Food cooked for mass consumption is poorly prepared and undercooked.
- The persons handling the food may transmit food-related pathogens from one plate to the next.
- High risk for Clostridium botulinum infection, which causes foodborne botulism or Clostridium perfringens (food poisoning) or other faecal-oral diseases.
However, most people today lack discipline. They are greedy and cannot control their primitive cravings for food. That is why they perish.
Be a different human being and rise above mass mediocrity.
Listen and thank me later.
Or, you will diarrhoea until your rectum becomes hot and red.
#BetterTogether
If you want to grow as a man, be private, accept the loneliness, and fix your life. No one is coming to save you. Your life is 100% your responsibility.
A fruit vendor expresses disappointment over people buying soda for KSh 150 but refusing to buy a pineapple for KSh 80 which is nutritious than soda which if full of syrup chemicals....
Hello Kenya Police,
โ Article 37:
Polo Kimani was peaceful,
Polo Kimani was unarmed,
He was rightfully protesting.
It is illegal to detain him.
Release Polo Kimani and his fellow citizens under your custody.
RT widely.
#FreePoloKimani
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