Idk who need to hear this but you better start living instead of existing. Get the tattoo, get the hairstyle, get the car, get the house, get the dog, hunch on a balcony, get saved, order the combo and make it a large….whatever it is that’s gone make you be like ye-
People arent “lazy.” Some arent motivated because of being in survival mode for so long. Some experience depression that depletes their energy even if they in bed all day. Some are battling internal struggles that take alot to overcome even if it looks like they’re doing nothing.
Unlike PTSD that is typically caused by singular traumatic events, C-PTSD (complex post traumatic stress) is caused by a repeated events that happen for months or years including:
- childhood emotional neglect
- financial insecurity
- emotionally unstable parent figures
- emotional abuse
C-PTSD creates: low self worth, hypervigilance relationship issues, depression, anxiety, and a fierce inner critic.
I’m sorry women talking about how they completely abandoned their fun wardrobes and makeup routines bc they got into a relationship and now they never leave the house or hang out with anyone besides their bf is HORRIBLE pr for dating
“i shouldn’t be annoyed at this” instead of shaming yourself for the emotion you’re already feeling, try understanding it. something has triggered you. it may seem small but you’ll soon find that when we give small things big reactions, it’s because a wound has been re-opened.