Meg is Probably Not Rated for Lava

Meg | tech professional | actually autistic | mom of two| she/her

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@RadCentrism Lol

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@suchnerve Enter trauma therapy

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@MRibnek Men behaving badly is a feature not a bug in their worldview

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@PicturesFoIder I read grownups as grownpups. And we are.

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Man says society is wrong for not limiting women's roles and influence in response to discussion about Catholic female altar servers. How am I still surprised

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@godandchocolate @rightscholar A little secret I learned: when it's always your fault because you belong to a certain category that's how you know you're encountering discrimination

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@bluewmist A thought: or they can predict the authority figure's response or have partly internalized that response so both what they could decide and what they want to decide both become non-options because any choice equals a betrayal of values

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@ChristisKingWV @ASobocki @rightscholar @davidgmac9 In my career I can aspire toward any role; in the church I cannot. That discrepancy is disorienting and needs addressed. Is society wrong for not limiting my roles and influence?

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@FrKyleDoustou What does the adjective "faithful" in "large faithful families" mean to you. In good faith I'm trying to understand

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@FrPBehm @FrMatthewLC I've been to a non fssp priest, standard Dominican, who told me in the confessional it was good the confessional line was long for my particular sin. I'm going to default to not doubting a victim's report. Doubting reports of abuse does harm

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@godandchocolate Original thread dripping of survivor bias

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@Pontifex Something the institutional church could try

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@_nomadic_soul Survivor bias

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@SNeurotypicals That I was doing something wrong. I was just wrong and missing something that other people had. In short: it was my fault and only I could "fix it".

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@wnderlustingem Not me wearing an accessible jean jacket because it doesn't touch my armpits and still itching to take it off when I get out of public. Deciding to go home early because my outfit was a mistake because the sleeves aren't loose enough

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Does anyone not

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@MegHunterKilmer "you're actually have a really good personality when you are yourself." Lol, I thought I was always myself

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@Jeangreyrising Me. 18 years into marriage. 16 years into parenthood

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@libby4000 I had the same experience on Aug 21 at age 38. A month later and I'm still not sure what I think and feel even though I pursued the assessment