The day will come when you get all the love that you give and so rightfully deserve. Someone will fight for you as much as you fight for them and actually love you as much as you love them🫶🏾✨
What’s been attracting me lately is kindness to other people, the ability to maturely communicate any and everything, and not needing to teach people the obvious about how to show up for me and treat me 🤎🤎
Making things about you in a friendship or relationship, obviously takes away from the other person which then seems selfish or manipulative. These are the times to mow things over & make sense of things TOGETHER & not independently/ impulsively. If there’s even value there✨
The biggest thing I’ve learned over the past few months literally is self-awareness. At this point, I don’t think I’ve ever been more self-aware even in the most dangerous moments of my life. Like that 1 time I came for Beyoncé on Instagram.
Ppl have their feelings & you have yours. Everyone has their own way of doing things. So the next time someone else’s actions doesn’t align w/ what you’d do or want, don’t take it personal. Have a conversation. You might learn something that can lead to a healthier ___ship🤎
I love hearing “I understand why this happened and I how can I help make things easier for you”. Talking at me and making me feel worse just makes the entire situation worse.
There is nothing wrong with needing to sit isolated in your thoughts to get yourself back together. It’s not about anyone else, so if they make it about them. That’s manipulation and gaslighting af.