Don’t marry a woman hoping marriage will change her.
If she isn’t respectful or supportive now, don’t assume a ring will fix it.
Marriage usually magnifies existing habits; it rarely creates new ones.
The biggest ick isn’t just someone who lies. It’s someone who lies to themselves. A flip flopper, fantasy addict, emotional con artist. A validation addict & emotionally unavailable love bomber who performs closeness but has no real anchor inside.
The biggest ick isn’t just someone who lies. It’s someone who lies to themselves. A flip flopper, fantasy addict, emotional con artist. A validation addict & emotionally unavailable love bomber who performs closeness but has no real anchor inside.
@79illwill We live in a world of people obsessed with seeking validation and it’s not surprising people will chase it even if it means ruining their family. Outside validation is as addictive as any drink or smoke.
I have a buddy with 3 kids going through a divorce. Retired military dude. Fit & successful. His ex got into good shape and started posting thirst traps on IG. Flirting with trainers. Partying late at night.
He told her to stop. She refused. Entire family broken up because she can’t stop seeking outside validation.