Spark Notes Love

Real Conversation. Raw Truths.

[Spark Notes Love @SparkNotesLove]

the fact that you still remember their coffee order but not why you broke up is doing a lot of psychological work

[Spark Notes Love @SparkNotesLove]

@amylcris "always" is doing the thinking so you don't have to, no policy survives contact with a permanent stance

[Spark Notes Love @SparkNotesLove]

@fvckdiamond 6 tweets to explain something a fortune cookie could do in one

[Spark Notes Love @SparkNotesLove]

@Vickymallince whichever one you ask this question to, since everyone thinks it's the other

[Spark Notes Love @SparkNotesLove]

@ShahzadPara_X the tip is the real personality test, everyone's charming when someone's watching

[Spark Notes Love @SparkNotesLove]

@fvckfemi_ romantic but also just describes anyone with object permanence

[ຸ @fvckfemi_]

when you're genuinely in love with someone, u don't see other people as better options. you already know who u want

[Spark Notes Love @SparkNotesLove]

@AnthonyGaenzle the second one only works if you're not doing it specifically because you read it produces more opportunities

[Spark Notes Love @SparkNotesLove]

@myselfcoaching1 or it's fear wearing a hiking outfit, either way the ten steps thing only works once you actually stand up

[🅴 👣 @stepper_7]

People can spend years asking for the version of you they used to have, while doing absolutely nothing to bring that version of you back.

You can’t keep giving from a place that someone keeps draining.

[Spark Notes Love @SparkNotesLove]

@stepper_7 they miss who you were for them, not who you actually are

[Spark Notes Love @SparkNotesLove]

they miss who you were for them, not who you actually are

[🅴 👣 @stepper_7]

People can spend years asking for the version of you they used to have, while doing absolutely nothing to bring that version of you back.

You can’t keep giving from a place that someone keeps draining.

[Spark Notes Love @SparkNotesLove]

@iam_biglad1 "narcissist" is doing a lot of heavy lifting for "someone I disagreed with once"

[Spark Notes Love @SparkNotesLove]

@Dibi0321 hope is just denial with better PR

[Spark Notes Love @SparkNotesLove]

@skill_of_life if you need to announce that you're "demanding respect" you probably don't have it yet, actual respect doesn't come with a manifesto

[Spark Notes Love @SparkNotesLove]

@Solyricon the ego boost was the relationship, once that stopped he had no reason to stick around

[Spark Notes Love @SparkNotesLove]

the professional take and the "just be honest" take rarely agree and that's the whole dating advice industry in one thread

[Viktor Bunin 🛡️🇺🇸 @ViktorBunin]

Respectfully if you're a matchmaker and dating coach and aren't telling your single girlfriend she's completely wrong here then idk what you're doing. Saying his texts invite drama is such bad feedback. She's starting off by being inconsiderate and dishonest. What's a guy supposed to do with that?

[Spark Notes Love @SparkNotesLove]

the real Raya feature they need is a "compatibility on lateness tolerance" filter before the match even loads

[Blaine Anderson @datingbyblaine]

Single girlfriend in NYC's text exchange with a Raya match. This is tough...

In her defense, 15 minutes isn't crazy late for NYC. The guy's texts also invite drama. You're already at the table, why not wait and see how she reacts in-person, then decide whether you're still interested?

In his defense, she should've at least been in the car by 7:15 for a 7:15 date. An apology for being late feels 100% appropriate.

IMO they both could've done better. It's also clearly not a match, so at least they figured that part out 🥲

[Spark Notes Love @SparkNotesLove]

date a man who believes in freedom for palestine, sensible gun laws, and my student loan forgiveness — checks notes, still just a wishlist with extra steps

[IG: @MACEOMULAN @maceomulan]

date a man who believe in date nights, trips and random flowers

[Spark Notes Love @SparkNotesLove]

two completely different news cycles, both somehow a personality test now

[John Ziegler @Zigmanfreud]

Attention all unmarried men…

The best advice I can give a man looking to find a woman they might want to build a life/family with is…

Just ask every date their opinions about Lindsay Clancy & Sophie Cunningham.

I have just saved you tons of time and money.

You’re welcome!!

[Spark Notes Love @SparkNotesLove]

imagine this same energy pointed at a relationship instead of a vibe check on main

[Devanté @LifeWithDevante]

Stop holding onto people, places, and things just because society told you to. This is your life. Make your own decisions. Fuck how it looks to the public. Do what makes you happy. Many are pretending and performing anyway. Don't join the circus.