I asked my girlfriend for 300k to help me cater for my household expense, she said she didn't have the money, so I cheated on her with a woman who gave me the money. You can't be broke and expect me to be faithful to you
We often stand in the compound of a coward to point at the ruins where a brave man used to live.
- Chinua Achebe
Any woman who incites you to go fight them, does not like you. This has nothing to do with defending or protecting her, she just wants you dead. My prayer for you is that you don't brave yourself to death.
Sometimes, common sense should prevail over courage.
- Frank Edoho
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I think it's pretty obvious to see, you know, the way he's performing, playing that little bit deeper REALLY and connecting the attack, starting the attacks and having a MASSIVE influence on our games.
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I boarded a cab and the driver was on call, as I heard Peter Obi, I started recording, turns out the guy was calling into a radio program , baba finish APC 😭
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this is insane. i genuinely don't understand why ambitious people aren't shown this lecture before their careers start consuming their entire lives.
clayton christensen spent his career studying why successful companies collapse. in his final class, he asked students to apply the theory to themselves: if you keep allocating your time the same way, what life are you actually building?
he had already seen the answer in his own harvard mba class. everyone looked successful at the fifth reunion; by the 10th, 15th, 20th, and 25th, many were unhappy, divorced, and living far from their children.
work shows you the score immediately. close a sale, ship a product, finish a presentation, earn a promotion, get paid.
an hour with your child may produce nothing you can measure today; it may take 20 years to understand what that hour built. so the next free hour goes back to work, one rational decision at a time.
this is how people build lives they never planned: through hundreds of right decisions that lead in the wrong direction, day after day.
money, titles, and headcount are easy to count. christensen believed a life should be measured by the people who became better because you were there.
he died in 2020.
one question remains: if someone saw only where your time, energy, and attention went this year, what would they think actually mattered to you?
the full 19-minute lecture is in the video below.