Anigilaje Yesufu

God first. January 23/August 13 . MMG !!Ac Milan !! Man city, Meekmill / April 28./ Grandpa 30

[blue @bluewmist]

The most powerful thing you can do is trust yourself. In a world full of advice, opinions, and expectations,
learning to listen to your own intuition is a revolutionary act. You are the best expert on your own life, and when you start trusting your inner wisdom, everything starts to flow.

[Lessons @onlypreneurs]

Always give yourself something small to look forward to, like a nice meal or a weekend stroll. Your mind and body need gentle reminders that life is meant to be enjoyed, not just a series of chores and survival.

[​𝐥𝐲𝐫𝐚 @sunnkssdseraph]

If you look younger than your age, this is what it means. It's not about your skin, it's about your spirit. You've been through storms, but you never let them turn you bitter. Because looking young isn't just about counting the years you've lived, it's about what you refused to let those years take from you. You chose peace over drama, growth over grudges and healing over, holding onto things that were hurting you. Some people let life weather them like an old house. You learned how to open the windows and keep letting the light back in. You learned how to walk away without carrying resentment, that inner peace has a way of showing up on the outside. Because despite everything life puts you through, you never let it take your life. So the next time somebody tells you you don't look your age, don't just say thank you, smile. Because life added years to your story without taking the youth of your soul.

[dreamer 🐚 @pandannnx]

a lot of people pick and choose when things are “African” and it usually only shows up in respectability politics. when we start talking about wearing traditional attire or natural hair in the workplace, African spirituality and our ancestors, they go quiet.

[blue @bluewmist]

once u stop fantasizing about an ideal version of urself & start working towards it by setting ur alarm clock earlier, working out, reading & stop procrastinating you'll realise that it was so easy all along. ur ideal self will only ever exist in ur mind until u make the decision

[Lessons @onlypreneurs]

The older I get, the more I realize that the real luxuries in life aren't things. They're time, health, peace of mind, slow mornings, people you love who love you back, meaningful conversations, financial freedom, being able to travel, a body that allows you to do the things you love, and calm, ordinary days.

[YOM🗣️ @ThaBoyYom]

Actually…

Nigerian Men are lowkey God’s most stup!d creation.

[Lessons @onlypreneurs]

the most underrated skill in life is knowing how to bounce back quickly. bad day? reset. rejection? keep moving. plans fall apart? make new ones. you don't need to pretend nothing hurts. just don't let one bad moment turn into a bad month. feel it, learn from it, and get back to living.

[​𝐥𝐲𝐫𝐚 @sunnkssdseraph]

I don't know who needs to hear this, but use every unfair advantage you have in life, your looks, your genetics, your connections, your parents money, whatever it is, use it because there's nothing noble about making your life harder just to call yourself an underdog. Some people may act like success only counts if it comes from suffering, as if the goal is to prove how much pain you can endure. It's not, the goal is to build a good life. If you've been given an advantage, pretending it doesn't exist doesn't make you humble, it just makes you inefficient. The people who achieve extraordinary things rarely spend their time apologizing for their advantages, they acknowledge them and use them. Remember that the purpose of an advantage is not to feel guilty about it, it is to help yourself go further because of it.

[blue @bluewmist]

You should study what makes you defensive. The topic you avoid, the joke that irritates you, the question that feels insulting, the feedback you instantly reject. Defensiveness is usually the guard dog sitting in front of a weakness you have not trained yourself to face.

[aether @bluewdrift]

You've got to get almost annoyingly serious about trusting yourself. You heard what you heard. You saw what you saw. You felt what you felt. Your body is speaking to you. Believe it.

[Lessons @onlypreneurs]

part of growing up is realizing how quickly life can humble anyone. the job you thought you'd always have, the person you thought would stay, the health you took for granted, the plans you thought were certain, none of it is guaranteed. you can be doing fine today and need help tomorrow. stay grateful while things are good, stay grounded when they aren't, and never look down on someone for a season you could find yourself in one day.

[Lessons @onlypreneurs]

the hardest truth is that life doesn't compensate you for your suffering. you can go through years of pain, lose people, lose time, and still wonder what it was all for. but sometimes things really do change in a single day. one opportunity, one person, one decision and suddenly the years of waiting make sense. keep going. you never know how close you are to the day everything changes.

[Max The Airbnb Guy🏡 @Maxtheairbnbguy]

If you are an empath, you are going to suffer.

Let me tell you why.

You feel everything. Everyone's pain. Everyone's sadness. Everyone's fear. You absorb the energy of every room you walk into. You carry the weight of people who would never carry yours. You give, and give, and give, hoping that someone, someday, will give back. But most people do not have the capacity to give back the way you give. Most people are not built like you. Most people are not feeling the world the way you are feeling it.

And at some point, you will discover that the world is filled with wolves and sheep. And you, my friend, are a sheep. A soft, open, vulnerable sheep walking through a forest of wolves who can smell your kindness from a mile away. They will take advantage of it. At some point you'll discover the world isn't built for people like you to survive.

You will burn out. You will hit a wall. You will realize that not everyone deserves your empathy. You will be disappointed. Over and over again. You shall suffer.

[​𝐥𝐲𝐫𝐚 @sunnkssdseraph]

Eventually, everyone gets forgotten. In just a few generations, no one will remember your name, your struggles, your achievements, or your failures. Whatever feels so important now will disappear completely. So, why spend your precious time taking everything so seriously? Why worry about what others think? Why stress over small problems? Why care about mistakes that no one will remember? Think about it. You're living a temporary life on a tiny planet in an endless universe. Your biggest disasters and most embarrassing moments won't even register in the grand scheme of things. Instead of creating more problems for yourself, go find some joy. Instead of overthinking, go experience something new. Instead of worrying about your reputation, go make some memories worth having. Life is too short and too temporary to spend it stressed and serious. Your problems aren't as big as they feel. Your mistakes aren't as important as you think.Let go of that heaviness. Find reasons to laugh. Create moments of happiness. Make peace with imperfection. No one will remember anyway, so you might as well enjoy the ride.

[​𝐥𝐲𝐫𝐚 @sunnkssdseraph]

No amount of chemistry, attraction or feelings will be enough if your partner does not understand this one thing, "your home situation". I've been in a relationship for 6 years, and the most important thing I've realized is that no two people grow up in the same house. Maybe you grew up around domestic violence, financial stress and lack of love and affection. Or maybe you grew up around stability, love and people who made you feel safe, both situations shape everything, the way you love, how you think, how you handle conflict and how you see yourself. So when two people from very different backgrounds come together they're not just meeting each other, they're meeting years of beliefs, habits, experiences that they had no idea the other person was carrying. That's why it matters so much to have a partner that doesn't judge you for where you come from, someone who doesn't shame you for your story and realizes that some of the reactions started long before they actually walked into your life. So the right partner won't just try to understand your behavior, but they'll also try to understand the experience shape it.

[Lessons @onlypreneurs]

you are allowed to outgrow yourself. the version of you that was anxious, insecure, lost, or afraid was doing the best it knew how to do with what it had. but you don't owe that version of yourself a lifetime sentence. learn something new. change your habits. challenge the beliefs you inherited. become someone your younger self wouldn't even recognize. that's the beautiful thing about being human, you can keep rewriting yourself for as long as you're alive.

[Lessons @onlypreneurs]

underrated life advice: build a life that looks boring from the outside. wake up early. keep your circle small. save more than you spend. take care of your body. call your parents. keep your word. stay away from unnecessary drama. you don't need a life that impresses everyone. you need one that feels peaceful when you're alone with it.

[Lessons @onlypreneurs]

the best investment you can make isn't financial. it's learning how your own mind works. understanding why you react the way you do, why certain things trigger you, why you chase some things and avoid others. the better you understand yourself, the harder it becomes for life to control you. self-awareness compounds in ways money never could.

[Lessons @onlypreneurs]

The best way to get what you want is to stop needing it. Pursue it like your life depends on it. Compete like you’ll die without the win. Sleep fine no matter the result. Build the business like the world needs it. Walk away if it stops being true. When you stop gripping so tightly, you realize you never needed to.