@EssentialMastry Another favorite quote:
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In leadership we teach,
'Donโt shoot a canon at a rabbit.
Itโs effective but then you have no more rabbit.'
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@ywomendeservles It's like training a child how to use fire until they start playing with it.
"A h0e without instruction is headed towards destruction."
@WealthHatch_ The neuroscience behind this:
When you're triggered, your amygdala hijacks your prefrontal cortex.
You literally lose access to rational thinking for about 20min.
If you can survive those 20min without reacting,
You'll make a completely different decision.
@48_quotes And the division is manufactured because it's profitable.
You're an easier attack vector if you're alone, sad & depressed.
If people are united it is so much harder to attack them.
@SeduceCleopatra 8. Money.
Not "are we splitting bills." The deeper stuff.
Does she save or spend everything she earns?
Does she expect your money to be "ours" while hers stays hers?
Does she buy $200 shoes while complaining about rent?
There is nothing as useless as blaming outside forces.
If it's your fault:
You can fix it!
Blame your parents?
You're stuck waiting for an apology that'll never come.
Blame your ex?
You'll just repeat the same mistakes with your new girl & end up heartbroken again.
@MasculineA7 And a woman genuinely believes she loves you unconditionally.
She's not faking.
She just can't tell the difference between loving YOU & loving the life you give her.
She'll only discover the truth when you stop providing.
@DatingSenseii 2. You reply to every single story & she hits you with a reaction emoji instead of words
3. You comment on her photos & she never comments on yours
4. She leaves you on seen but posts 3 stories that same hour
5. You like her posts but she doesn't even follow you back
@the_martinet 2. You stopped looking good yourself. Sweatpants, belly out, no effort
3. You never noticed when she DID dress up. So she stopped bothering
4. You gave her full security too fast
5. You never looked at other women. Sounds loyal but she read it as "he has no options."
@MindOfHeadking Now post the hundreds of videos where the bride slaps the groom with the cake, in front of everyone, and the whole room laughs.
Nobody pulls him out.
Nobody checks on him.
He's just expected to take it & smile.
Funny how that works.
@MasculinePeak Same principle applies to everything:
Persistent when she's attracted = romantic
Persistent when she's not = creepy
Quiet when she's attracted = mysterious
Quiet when she's not = awkward
Direct when she's attracted = confident
Direct when she's not = aggressive
@guideforlovers Chemistry behind this:
Uncertainty triggers cortisol AND dopamine at the same time.
That cocktail mimics the same brain pattern as cocaine.
This is why toxic relationships feel more "passionate" than stable ones.
You don't have to be toxic.
Just never become predictable.
@FWPlayboy This is what made male attention worthless.
That's why a man who approaches her in person is 100x more powerful now than 20 years ago.
You're offering the only form of attention that's still scarce.
@woman_think Very true.
The nuance most miss:
She'll say "I want a man who shows his emotions."
But what she actually means is she wants a man who CAN feel but CHOOSES not to break down.
Hang out with a guy 3-4 times that has multiple women.
You'll realize that even if you have one beautiful woman,
There are so many more things possible if you actually just tried & stopped accepting the status quo.