My boomer mom just redid her entire kitchen, re-tiled the pool, got a boob job at 70, and is currently booking a two-week trip to Italy.
My brother has been sleeping in his car for the past four months.
Same woman. Same household he grew up in. Same bank account she could write a check from if she wanted to.
I asked her directly if she'd help him get into an apartment, even just cover a deposit to get him off the street. She said money "doesn't grow on trees" and that he "needs to learn responsibility."
Meanwhile the contractor's truck has been in her driveway for three weeks straight.
I did the math on just what I know about: kitchen renovation, pool retiling, a cosmetic surgery procedure, and a two-week international trip. That's easily $60,000-$80,000 in discretionary spending this year alone. For one person. On things that are entirely optional.
My brother needs a fraction of that, once, to get back on his feet. Not a handout for life. A deposit and a month of rent to stop sleeping in a Honda Civic in a Walmart parking lot.
She has the money. She's spending the money. Just not on him.
This isn't a story about generational wealth gaps or the economy or any of the bigger systemic stuff I usually talk about. This is just a woman who has it and is choosing, actively choosing, not to use any of it on her own kid while he's genuinely struggling to survive.
"I worked hard for my money and I'm going to enjoy it" is one thing when you're talking about a vacation.
It's a very different thing when your son is living in a car four miles away.
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