You can't love the abuse out of the abuser, neither can you change them.
The person you need to correctly love first is you. The only person you have the power to change is you.
#Obicentric#AdekunleGold#NURTW#BBNaijaS7
The best way to tackle the #WhatWillPeopleSay syndrome is to own your story and tell it by yourself, unashamedly.
If you're courageous enough to tell it, you strip people of that power.
Telling breaks the power of shame over you.
Break the silence!
Speak up!
#SilhoutteChallenge
The greatest needs of man are love, approval, safety, security and survival. If you look for these things elsewhere, you'll only sabotage your happiness.
If you're connected to the genuine source, you'll generate these from within and attract only whole & healthy relationships.
There are mistakes you shouldn't make in life...Chief of which is to marry wrong.
And if by divine plan or happenstance, you're given a second chance to marry again, please make the best use of it and marry right.
Don't disappoint or rush. Please, marry the best.
Mind your attractions.
Every distraction is first an attraction to the wrong direction.
Abusive relationships do not start out as abusive.
In the beginning, they feel just right only to turn sour in no time.
Recognising/discerning "wrong," is your key to discovering "right."
#motivationwednesday
Do not despise your small beginning.
If you despise small, you may never get big.
Nature is designed to encourage growth and increase.
Even God expects your beginning to be small and your end, great.
#Job8vs7#Eccl7vs8
"I honour myself in my thoughts, choices, interactions and daily life."
Your life will always go in the direction of your predominant thoughts. These thoughts drive your words and actions, and ultimately who you are or become.
Be intentional about your affirmation this week.
If you can't recognise the winner in you, you'll go through life like a loser!
Don't be the winner and be acting like the loser simply because you can't recognise how God has helped and lifted you.
Even if it doesn't feel like it yet, still be grateful!
Mindset is everything!
One of the reasons you're probably still stuck in that abusive relationship is the thought that you may not succeed at starting over again if you have to.
Know that you stand a greater chance to succeed if you dare.
This applies to other aspects of life.
#motivationwednesday
Affirmations are a great way to establishing our lives by building and painting them with bricks and colours from the words we intentionally speak.
I affirm that I am blessed with a fabulous family and great friends!
I love and am loved back even more abundantly!
Declare yours!
God has done so much for me, I cannot tell it all. And that's why my gratitude is endless.
This week, my affirmation is that of gratitude.
I am grateful for my sanity, and for the freedom to be me without any fear or intimidation.
What do you affirm?
#AffirmationMonday