Adesuwa🌼

A girl loved by God 🤍

[Rinu Oduala 🔥🔫 @SavvyRinu]

I have been privileged to work across over 20 countries including the United States and UK as a Gen Z. In many rooms I have been in, I was the youngest person.

So I can tell you, the greatest skill you need in your corner is not your certificate, but the ability to work across cultures and systems. 

The fact that the 76-year old CEO in my workplace 3 streets away from the White House asked me to call him by his first name Damon doesn’t mean I should come back to Nigeria and call Dr. Oby Ezekwesili by her first name.

It’s lack of social intelligence. When you are in Rome, you behave like a Roman. Adapt quickly or be left behind.

[Martha Ahumuza @MarthaAhumuza]

I think growing up around women who rarely wore makeup, except for special occasions and that definitely shaped how I relate to it. I never really learned to see makeup as a prerequisite for looking presentable, feminine or put together. But beyond that, as I've gotten older,

[aether @bluewdrift]

Keep your problems smaller than your life. A flat tire is a flat tire. A bad meeting is a bad meeting. A canceled flight is just an extra two hours. These things become catastrophes when you let them. But they stay manageable when you remember the depth of your real life- the people you love, the work you care about, the beautiful years still ahead. Zoom out. Fit your reaction to the size of the problem.

[Argyll Robertson Pupil @Nomskki]

@jesidamina @nerdy_deb Bruno mars’ ‘her hair falls perfectly without her trying’
Sir my hair is 4c, gravity cannot hold it down

[gst @wearegst]

Nigerian children are left behind by design.

[aether @bluewdrift]

This line from Atomic Habits isn't ready to leave my head:

"It doesn't make sense to continue wanting something if you're not willing to do what it takes to get it. If you don't want to live the lifestyle, then release yourself from the desire. To crave the result but not the process is to guarantee disappointment."

[T•Y 👨🏽‍💻 @Chilled_Ty]

Your job is important but, so are your workouts, your lunch breaks, vacation days, hobbies, the people waiting for you when you get home.
Works pays for your life. It isn't supposed to replace it.

[Cowrywise @cowrywise]

Every company should leave the office once in a while.

Because people are easier to understand when they're not behind a laptop.

Let me give you a peek into our retreat experience.🧵

[Elnathan John @elnathan_john]

If you need evidence that physically hitting children does not work and often even makes them worse, you only need to look at Nigeria, a collectively battered and abused population, where people have become worse, more badly behaved, more violent, less disciplined over time.

[Abisolami @___bambii_]

Was randomly thinking about something similar to this yesterday, I think the more a woman masters agency for herself and goes after the life she desires before marriage the more content she is in marriage.

I think when women are idle in their single years, assuming that all the joy of life comes in marriage - there is a lot of expectation there and honestly even if a man is good person there is still possible that he may not centre your personal fulfilment.

[Yetunde Omobolanle✨ @Divayetty1]

Most of us who didn’t “go astray” or stayed the course of being a “good child” did so because of our own convictions, not because we were beaten into submission or lived in fear. Yes, upbringing plays a role, but at some point, our own values and choices took over. Who go spoil, go spoil.

[shona @Officiallshona]

Everyone keeps talking about “giving grace to your parents” but you hardly hear them say give grace to your children. It’s embedded in our culture and religion. That is why we have so many parents repeating the cycle because they know the society will always back them up.

[⭐️Teo🫧!! comms open 💖 (1/3) @teogobrr]

So many people in the replies talking about how they used to fantasize about dying by the hands of their parents when they were children, just so their parents would feel just a little bit of guilt

Yet people still think beating children is just discipline and not abuse.

[Bella Hadidn’t @SkinwithLolami]

I really don’t like the way a lot of us talk about our hypothetical children before those children even exist. There’s so much emphasis on “showing them who’s boss”,“dealing with them” or making sure they’re afraid of you. It makes me wonder whether we’ve truly examined the parenting we experienced ourselves. Please, we need to unlearn a lot of the things that were done to us simply because we believe we “turned out fine.”

Children will absolutely test your patience. They’ll push boundaries, make mistakes and frustrate you. That’s part of being a child. But you’re the adult. You’re the one with the fully developed brain, the life experience and the responsibility to be more emotionally regulated.

[gbemisoke @Gbemisoke]

I don't like gentle parenting.
The term, not the style, because of how we hear "gentle" & think lax/lazy.

There's nothing lazy about Authoritative Parenting, which is what this style with high expectations AND warmth is really called.

We're mistaking it for Permissive Parenting

[ThatPortharcourtBoy aka Nnukwu Nmanwu @ThatPHCBoy]

all the beating that nigerian parents beat their kids growing up, did it work? as a collective, do we behave like people who were well raised? this does not even require any sophisticated study, the answer is starring us in the face

[Thee Comfort O.🌸 @comfortomovre]

A lot of people think they turned out okay but salivating over beating your children is a sign that you in fact, did not. Most of what we refer to as “generational” curse is just unhealed trauma repeating itself in a cycle. Please do the healing work before having kids.

[Thee Comfort O.🌸 @comfortomovre]

My hot take is that as women, we need to let ourselves be, more and more. Wear your natural nails, your natural lashes, rock your fro. For Chrissakes, we’re human beings not machines. The whole “maintenance” and now “beauty maxxing” culture has always rubbed me off the wrong way. Women please breathe and live! There’s nothing wrong with your natural state!

[blue @bluewmist]

to avoid burnout at work use the 30-30 rule: after 30 minutes of work, quit your job and disappear into the mountains for 30 years.

[HALO | CAREER SPECIALIST @Halosznn_]

I spent my entire day finding companies abroad that are actively hiring remotely. I found a few companies all hiring remote workers and compiled them into one sheet.

Roles cover social media, graphic design, content writing, video editing, virtual assistance, and more across Pakistan, Nigeria, UAE, Nepal, India, Ghana, the UK, the US, and beyond.

Mode of application has been added, so all you have to do is send your CV & portfolio where necessary.

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