The easiest person to take for granted is usually the hardest to replace. Why?
Because they made loyalty look normal. Because they made consistency look normal. Because they made effort look normal
So normal that you start believing you can find that anywhere. That's why many people leave good partners NOT because they found better BUT because they assume that can be easily found
The person you get "bored" of is often the person you'll end up looking for in other people
If you have that person in your life, value them.
Men are so private online. A guy could be moving to another country or having his first child, and heโd still only post a random football score on his story.
Frame A: When she's genuinely attracted, you'll fvck for FREE
Frame B: When you negotiate desire, you'll fcvk for a FEE
As a man refuse to be the guy in frame B, paying for what others got for free or at a discount
Respect yourself
Why are men in jobs considered "low status" e.g fuel attendants, cashiers, packers, cleaners, security guards tend to be more friendly compared to their female counterparts
Most people who were "cool" in high school are not so cool now
Remember that hot chick in high school, she now looks like SpongeBob
Remember that cool guy who got the chicks, now he's that dude who brags about having smashed so n so
It's like they never moved past teenage years, all their stories revolve around high school memories
I guess peaking early can make it hard to maintain value for the long term
There's no such thing as "love at first sight" however there is "lust at first sight"
A man approaches a woman not because he loves her but because he wants to smash her
Everything else follows later but what starts is SEXUAL ATTRACTION
All men want SEX and it's normal!!!
Many men are choosing to stay single because theyโre exhausted from pouring their hearts, time & resources into relationships, only to feel unappreciated or left with nothing in the end.
If you observe, the majority of guys who end up marrying the retiring sluts, it's usually the STEM bros (tech bros, engineers, doctors)
Because majority of them are just nerds, while academically gifted, they tend to lack on their social skills
So in their school days till graduation they're basically invisible to women. It's only after they start making money from their high paying careers that they become visible to women
The women start flocking to these brothers. Unbeknown to these brothers, they genuinely believe these women are attracted to them, when in reality it's the lifestyle
The women know these are men with not much experience, so they aren't that hard to manipulate. In the blink of an eye, the brother marries the retired slut
End of story (or is it)
Men;
Be selfish. Noone is sympathetic to a man in this world be it your woman, family, community and society. That is why you have to be a little bit selfish and invest in yourself. Focussing more on personal empowerment
The moment you grasp that anything can literally happen to you in the blink of an eye like being disabled, homelesss, unemployed, sick, death, you become very humble and grateful