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Keeping Him Aroused
If you're into chastity in your FLR, then it's important to understand the psychological and physiological aspects the submissive goes through while locked.
The first few days in chastity, are a slow build up phase, he becomes more and more sensual.
After 3 days locked, he's going to be a cuddle bug.
He doesn't necessarily want out of the cage yet.
He's enjoying the chastity, and as each passing day goes by, her feminine beauty becomes more and more attractive.
In other words, his desire to serve and worship her increases exponentially with each passing day.
All he can think about is pleasing her and obeying her.
This will last for about a week to 10 days.
Around day 10 his frustration begins to kick into overdrive.
He starts thinking more about when he will be released, so he will be on extra good behavior, but also perhaps becoming a little bit desperate, and may beg for a release.
If no unlock occurs for teasing, over the next few days, his frustration will reach a peak. Around the 3 week period, and this can different for each person, without an unlock, and without release, his arousal will begin to wane.
However, that doesn't mean he's less horny, it just simply means his body is adjusting to the cage. His night time erections will lessen and help him sleep better.
There will be less leaking, and less straining in his cage, as his penis has accepted it's tiny prison.
What's interesting however, is that this waning only occurs if he is locked and left denied, without her paying any attention to his penis.
After about a month, he will reach a plateau, and he will find stability in this plateau, where the cage simply becomes a part of his body.
When the cage gets removed after being locked for so long, he will feel strangely naked and vulnerable without it locked on.
Which she can use to her full advantage, to tease him, and make him beg to be locked back up.
It's always best to make his submission his idea through various domination techniques.
Does he want to eat her out, or be unlocked? His choice will usually be to eat her out, because he knows it's what she wants.
It's the confidence of dominance at work.
However, once he reaches that plateau of being locked for 5 weeks, without an unlock or teasing, he will remain in a sensual state, and if he's into feminization, panties or girly clothes will help calm his frustration because it brings greater awareness to his entire body, rather than just his cage.
This is beneficial because it keeps him focused on obedience, instead of release.
However, he is not aching for release. His balls are not as blue as they could be.
While it can be ideal for many FLR's to keep him on the plateau, some Dommes are more interested in keeping this subs at their most frustrated, at all times.
Aching blue balls, and constantly desperate for a release from the cage.
That's where regular teasing comes in.
Teasing can take many forms, and I'm not going to go through in this article. But regularly edging him, every day or couple of days, will go a long way to keeping him very horny, and he will ache so much he will be willing to do anything for her. And agree to anything she might want him to agree to.
Naturally, she could use this method of dominance for abuse. It's very easy to abuse a submissive man, because many of them won't speak out when they should.
So this is where the Domme's responsibility is of paramount importance in maintaining trust and integrity in the FLR.
A good Domme will always get what she wants, but she will also always make sure that her sub is comfortable with it first.
If she does that correctly, he will be her's forever.
Her submissive, her slave, her pet, her cuck, whatever it is she wants him to be. He will love her for it.
Most importantly, he will ache for her, 24/7, since she understands his psychology so well, that she can keep his body and mind, desiring and obeying her without mercy.
He learns the definition of true submission.
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Try out some humiliating ideas💋
1. Requiring him to perform fellatio on the strap-on dildo.
2. Fuck him in his ass with the strap-on in front of others (maybe on cam).
3. Pegging him while his is wearing your lingerie.
4. Make him cum on the strap-on before fucking him.
Her Chastity Addiction
Chastity is addicting for her. Yes, for her. He may be addicted to chastity too, but that's not the point.
He's locked because she wants him locked, whether he likes it or not.
It may start out as his idea. Chastity is a hot fantasy of giving up control to her, but the truth is, most subs don't really know what happens when they want out, but they're not allowed out.
It's all fun and games, until he actually wants out.
His balls ache, his scrotum is sore from chaffing, he longs for an erection, and he's not even allowed to complain about any of it. This can go on for weeks.
It's only when he truly wants out of chastity, that she begins to see the real benefits of it.
She sees his desperation, and she knows that he will do anything for her, to earn a release.
So he will be extra obedient, and extra eager to please her, however she wishes.
That's the first reason why it's addicting.
Just keeping him in that state of desiring her, and eager to please, is enough in and of itself, to keep him locked.
She has him where she wants him. It's perfect.
But it goes deeper than that.
Feeling that much control over him, over his body, over even the ability to have an erection, actually fuels her arousal.
She is far more horny when he's locked, and she gets to use his tongue whenever she wishes.
He will be extremely desperate and then ordered to go down on her, she cums all over his face, maybe multiple times, then she cuddles up to him and falls soundly asleep in his arms.
Leaving him to leak and strain, and be soothed only by her relaxed deep breathing, feeling her body snuggled against his.
That's the second reason she is addicted to chastity.
He is essentially her personal teddy bear, with a tongue.
A tongue she can command, and teach, to eat her right, every time, there's no slacking, he must perfect his technique, otherwise he knows there's no hope of being unlocked.
He is always striving to do his best for her, and she'll accept nothing less than that.
That's the third reason she is addicted to chastity.
But still it goes even deeper than that.
There is a sense of security, a sense of ownership of him, that comes with having him locked.
She goes about her day, knowing he's thinking about her. Knowing she's the only one that can do anything about his desperation.
This is an incredible power, she realizes the only sex he will ever get, will be decided by her, and her alone.
She can take away all forms of masturbation and porn, she gets to control his sex life completely.
That's the fourth reason she is addicted to chastity.
Once she has him locked, she can get playful with it.
Flirty, teasing, or even humiliating. She can use her body and see his reaction to her sexiness.
She can tease him that he's not allowed to have her. She can play with his cage, or even relax her feet in his lap while watching tv.
She gets to have so much fun with him, and he's completely at her whim.
That's the fifth reason she is addicted to chastity.
It's just plain and simple, a whole lot of fun. She has claimed him, she holds his key, and she never has to give it back.
She sleeps far better, knowing he is safely locked up beside her.
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My kinky fantasy for today involves two heterosexual male subs, whipped cream, seasonal fruits, a bottle of Bollinger, and a flawless cheese plate.
I’d have the first sub lie fully naked on a dining table, serving as the canvas. The second sub would be naked, locked in chastity, and tasked with the execution.
I’d sit in a comfortable chair, watching, sipping Bollinger, and enjoying my cheese, while the locked sub decorates the first with cream and fruit — before being ordered to consume it all. The scene culminates with a blowjob, where the locked sub must swallow half of the release and share the second half through a kiss with the other.
Afterward, they clean themselves, but to brush their teeth, and the decorated sub is locked into chastity as well. Their final duty? A foot massage in my bed until I drift off to sleep.