Faery

My experiences and advice from being in a relationship with a D.I.D system

[spencer 𓆟 coms closed @phi1odendron]

my whole life my mom was all "no let me do it for you" and simultaneously like "why dont you know how to do that? youre old enough to be doing it yourself. i shouldnt have to do everything for you!" GIRL YOU NEVER TAUGHT ME HOW TO DO ANYTHING !!!!!!!!!!

[Mademoiselle X @platedpanda]

“sorry for making it about me” “sorry for being a mood killer” “sorry for complaining all the time” “sorry for ranting”

[Faery @SysFairy]

@SystemofPeanuts Yeah it’s supposed to help but it takes 40-50 business days to feel it

[fern || ☕️ in strawpage! @featherleafern]

“how can alters be part of you AND their own individual people as well?”

the same way these are all blue AND all different colors at the same time

[i contain multitudes @pluralbears]

u can tell someone u have the "im a different person sometimes" disorder and they still lowkey expect u to have a consistent personality

[salem @twilghtsys]

before gaining system awareness I really was just like wow I talk to myself a lot and have such a bad memory and also happen to not feel like “myself” sometimes..Haha.. hah Wonder why that is

[realyuriyearners @realyuriyearns]

those are my secret headmates. or as i like to call them. my private parts.

[Faery @SysFairy]

@documense I don’t know if it works that way

[Faery @SysFairy]

I use Pluralspace now

[Dirk♿️ @robotEnthused]

SimplyPlural shutting down on the first day of disability pride month is horribly ironic.

[Dirk♿️ @robotEnthused]

SimplyPlural shutting down on the first day of disability pride month is horribly ironic.

[Catherine Pikachu @CathachuPikachu]

When the alters give unsolicited advice

[Faery @SysFairy]

@documense Yes

[Faery @SysFairy]

@SystemofPeanuts Let me know if you need to talk about it

[one guy. maybe more @documense]

if you have a disorder that makes you experience multiple subjective realities you are going to have to get a lot better at accepting that you probably are always going to both believe and not believe you have DID. it comes with the territory.

[one guy. maybe more @documense]

personally i believe a lot of systems with higher alter counts who often "introject" with an alter that only says 4 things ever and then disappears actually just recycle the constituent parts and they go back into a pool of uncoagulated fragments until they combine enough again

[𝗠𝘂𝗵𝗲𝗲 ♛ @muheediva01]

Going to start commenting “not all men” when someone says “Men are providers and protectors.”

[️ ݁ @zanseal]

“I’m just making up all my symptoms and headmates” okay even if you where, Viktor, the level of maladaptive coping that would be to actually experience said symptoms because you convinced yourself you have them is insane and would still be an issue.