@elladeonRH Like let’s say that your husband makes $200,000 per year. Would you feel better if he paid you 80 K per year, or if you had access to that whole 200,000 per year? Like the complaint doesn’t really make any sense.
@elladeonRH Even if you were technically semantically right (you aren’t) I think it’s pretty obvious requirement of being a slave that you don’t get access to your master’s income to do whatever you please.
Maybe that’s it’s me, but that’s not an excuse to cheat in your wife.
If you’ve lost interest in her, or the marriage is failing, just get a divorce and go be with the girl you want to be with.
Better yet, go jerk off if it’s that much of a problem for you.
Usually Im positive on a lot of things, but if you cheat on your husband or wife and your only excuse is “oh they wouldn’t sleep with me” you’re a shallow piece of shit who deserves to die alone. End of story.
@reddeadpatriot It’s both. Most of it is probably groceries (because that’s just how most people’s finances work) but some of it is discretionary spending, and women spend the most in those areas too.
You didn’t say it’s slavery, but the post I’m responding to did. That’s my only point.