i LOVE a beauty and the beast type of trope, and how you can love someone despite of their appearance, but why does this only apply to men that are ugly. This clearly says a lot about the patriarchal standard but y'all keep denying it, stay in your bubble while everyone suffers
they engraved us women this way of thinking, "you shouldn't care about his look as long as he's kind, the real beauty is on the inside" while telling us that if we're not beautiful enough no one will love us, because they never teach men empathy kindness.
@obaa_boni The comments under the post are disgusting "if you don't wanna have sex don't get married" "she has no reason to reject him he's reacting appropriately" I've never had less faith for humanity in my life Jesus Christ