You just contradicted yourself. You said both parents should have a say, but in this situation they didn’t. He said he didn’t want the baby, she decided to keep the pregnancy anyway. That’s her right. But if she gets the final decision, then you can’t turn around and act like he had equal control over the outcome. Either both people truly have equal say, or they don’t. If it’s ultimately her choice and legally it is then you can’t pretend he had the same decision-making power she did. I’m not excusing him if he doesn’t support the child now that the child is here. I’m saying stop acting like only one person’s choices mattered before the baby was born when, in reality, one person had the final decision. But BOTH are wrong. .
@adorablekookoo@redhead33_@halotheartisan@AFRiCANAiRLiNE@duicebiggs Okay say it’s VICE VERSA . Would yall put this much energy into her if she wanted to keep the child ? Not saying he ain’t a loser cause he for sure is but would yall be going hard on her like yall are him if she aborted the child and he wanted the kid ?