Richard Fuckin Tamez

I’m Richard Tamez Umali people hate me because I speak the truth! Backup account my official account is here

[✰ @whoisfolaa]

I promise you, there hasn’t been a single day since I met you that I haven’t wanted you. You’ve been on my mind more than you could ever imagine, and no matter how busy life gets, somehow, my thoughts always find their way back to you. It’s crazy how one person can occupy so much space in your heart without even trying. From the moment you came into my life, something about you stayed with me, and till today, I still find myself choosing you, wanting you, and falling for you in ways I can’t fully explain. ❤️‍🩹

[Liz.🐞 @elizabxtthh]

you cannot create a healthy relationship with someone who believes love is only a feeling and not also a decision they must keep making. people who see love that way often expect relationships to run on chemistry alone. they assume that if two people are right for each other, everything should come naturally, conflict should be minimal, and effort shouldn’t be necessary. they struggle when disagreements arise because they mistake difficulty for incompatibility. but real relationships require communication, accountability, patience, and the willingness to work through uncomfortable moments together. even with the right person, you’ll have to confront your fears, recognise your unhealthy patterns, learn to listen better, and grow beyond the person you were before. love might begin with a feeling, but sustaining it takes intention, commitment, and consistent action.

[Poetry. @2lastvibes]

I love girls with strong personalities. Girls who know who they are, speak their minds, stand up for themselves, and never feel the need to shrink just to make other people comfortable. Girls who can be soft and caring without being pushovers, confident without being arrogant, and independent without pretending they don’t need anyone. There’s something so attractive about a woman who knows her worth, has her own opinions, and isn’t afraid to be unapologetically herself. That kind of energy is impossible to ignore.

[Principal⭐️ @OkadikeOnyeisi]

I don't think people talk enough about how much courage it takes to start over when you never wanted to start over in the first place. To rebuild a life you thought you had already built. To find your confidence after someone destroyed it. To make new plans when the future you imagined no longer exists. Sometimes the bravest thing you'll ever do is begin again with absolutely nothing but yourself; but one day, you may just look back and realize that the ending you never wanted became the beginning you never knew you needed.

[Poetry. @2lastvibes]

Please don’t come into my life if you’re only planning to stay for ten minutes, because my mom will ask about you for the next ten years. She’ll remember your name, bring you up out of nowhere, and wonder what happened long after I’ve stopped talking about you. So if you’re not planning to stay, please don’t get comfortable. I can handle losing people, but explaining where they went to my mom for the rest of my life is a whole different struggle.

[Valet Parker @702ValetParker]

“Sex work is degrading.” Yeah, because clocking in at Walmart and being screamed at over expired coupons is so empowering.

[Poetry. @2lastvibes]

Y’all’s relationships don’t work because you think it’s okay to ignore someone just because you’re mad, instead of being an adult and communicating. Being upset is valid, but using silence to punish someone solves absolutely nothing. Healthy relationships require difficult conversations, honesty, and the willingness to work through uncomfortable feelings together. You can be angry with someone and still treat them with respect. Love isn’t about avoiding conflict; it’s about learning how to handle it without hurting each other.

[Richard Fuckin Tamez @Tam_Richards77]

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[Liz.🐞 @elizabxtthh]

real love isn’t measured by how quickly two people walk away when things become difficult. it’s revealed in their willingness to confront the problems instead of abandoning the relationship at the first sign of discomfort.

some couples experience seasons of distance, painful misunderstandings, and personal growth that forces them to confront parts of themselves they’d rather avoid. that doesn’t automatically mean they were never right for each other. sometimes it means the relationship is asking both people to grow beyond the ways they’ve always handled love.

but growth only works when both people participate. when they keep choosing honesty over silence, accountability over blame, and understanding over pride, they can create something much deeper than attraction alone.

they build trust. they build emotional safety. they build a partnership where neither person has to carry the relationship alone. and eventually, they create the kind of home where love isn’t just something they feel, but something they consistently practice.

[. @1luckixho]

lowkey the hardest part about losing her was realizing i was holding onto memories. not the person she became. i kept making excuses for her, thinking one day things would go back to how they used to be. whole time, she was getting comfortable with losing me, i was trying to save something she had already given up on, and that shit hurts more than the breakup itself.

[𐙚 @probablyfineeee]

Here’s a hard truth! sometimes, you’re just a placeholder in someone’s life. They’re with you because it’s convenient, because they want sex, or simply because they don’t want to be alone. They’ll enjoy your presence without ever planning a future with you, secretly waiting for someone they actually want. And the saddest part? You might be giving them your whole heart while they’re just passing the time.

[Principal⭐️ @OkadikeOnyeisi]

According to attachment theory, genuine love is reflected in how someone responds to your pain, not just your presence. When someone truly values your wellbeing, their deepest fear isn't losing access to you, it's causing you harm. But when someone only loves what you provide for them, they fear losing their supply, not hurting your heart. This subtle difference reveals everything about whether you're loved for who you are or what you give. Notice which one keeps them awake at night.

[Poetry. @2lastvibes]

Be careful who you hurt. Some people aren’t replaceable, no matter how easily you convince yourself that they are. You might think they’ll always be there, always forgive you, always give you another chance, but sometimes people eventually reach a point where love can’t make them stay. You don’t realize the value of someone’s presence until their absence becomes permanent. So appreciate the people who genuinely love you while you still have them. Some losses don’t come with second chances.

[Sexual Health coach @sxhealth101]

Men, be careful when an ex comes back after you finally start healing.

She may tell you she misses you. She may suddenly remember all the good things about you. She may say she made a mistake. She may even make you believe that everything will be different this time.

Before you run back, remember why she left.

Remember what you tolerated.

Remember how you felt when the relationship ended.

Missing each other doesn’t automatically mean the relationship is healthy enough to restart.

People can regret their decisions without actually changing.

Don’t reopen a door simply because someone knocked on it.

Most of the time they miss the comfort you provided and sometimes is because she failed to replace you.

Don’t be a fool.

[Poetry. @2lastvibes]

Meeting someone with the same mindset as you is rare. Someone who sees relationships, loyalty, communication, effort, and life in a way that feels familiar to your own heart. Someone who doesn’t make you feel like you’re asking for too much when you simply want honesty, consistency, and genuine care. There’s something incredibly comforting about finding a person who understands the things you don’t even have to explain, because they naturally think the same way. When that kind of connection finds you, you realize how exhausting it was trying to make yourself understood by people who simply couldn’t see things the way you did.

[Principal⭐️ @OkadikeOnyeisi]

Right now, your greatest responsibility is getting your life back on track and becoming the strongest, healthiest version of yourself. Don't waste your energy worrying about who stays, who leaves, who understands you, or who changes. This chapter is about choosing yourself. Heal your mind, rebuild your discipline, protect your peace, and reconnect with who you truly are. The people who are meant to be part of your next chapter will find you when you get there.

[Liz.🐞 @elizabxtthh]

a healthy relationship doesn’t require two people who have somehow healed every wound from their past. it requires two people who are self-aware enough to understand their wounds, recognize the patterns they’ve carried forward, and take responsibility for how those patterns affect the relationship. when you choose someone, you’re choosing their history too. that means learning how to hold each other’s difficult parts with compassion while still encouraging growth. helping each other become lighter isn’t codependency. there’s a difference between carrying someone and loving them while they learn how to carry themselves.

[Poetry. @2lastvibes]

Please don’t expect me to always be kind and loving. There will be times when I’m distant, cold, quiet, thoughtless, or difficult to understand. There will be days when I don’t know how to communicate what I’m feeling, when I need space instead of conversation, and when even I don’t understand myself. It doesn’t mean I’ve stopped caring. I’m human, and I have moments when I’m overwhelmed, tired, or hurting. I just hope the people who love me can remember that there is still a soft heart underneath the parts of me they don’t always know how to reach.

[Principal⭐️ @OkadikeOnyeisi]

Part of growing up is realizing you're not above anything. Homelessness, job loss, heartbreak, illness, failure, even death can happen to anyone. Life can humble you overnight. Stay grateful, stay grounded, and never look down on someone struggling.

[𐙚 @probablyfineeee]

Nobody talks about how calm life feels when you have money saved. Not rich. Just enough to say no to the wrong things. Enough to wait for the right ones. Enough to not panic when something goes wrong. That kind of peace is underrated and that is exactly what you are building toward.