Loving people doesn’t mean we need to control their conduct. Loving people means caring without an agenda. As soon as we have an agenda it’s not love anymore. #EverybodyAlways
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The pursuit of truth ever reminds us that no matter how much we know or how many people we help, we are always a student, a disciple undergoing training. We are not the Teacher. We are only a servant of the Teacher. There is no arrogance at the foot of the cross.
We have frequently overemphasized the response of the abused to the exclusion of confronting the behavior of the abuser. Unfortunately, the church has often reproved the helpless and protected and defended abusers.
The length of the grieving is determined by the griever, not by how long you, as a comforter, can stand to be sad. Your work is to be with them where they are, not drag them out where you are more comfortable.
The body of Christ is called to be a sacred place for the vulnerable. We have often chosen to be a safe place for the powerful and have deceived ourselves into believing that God would call that good.
#RedeemingPower
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Religious structures that place the burden of male abuse on women create predators like Josh Duggar. This is systemic and intentional. They are also one of the biggest threats against the safety of girls and women due to the generations of damage they cause.
Do you think God is asking you to try harder to become your husband's fantasy wife (which you will never succeed at) or does God have you in your husband's life for a far more radical and redemptive purpose? EDM https://t.co/IVghdBpOkv
When the mourner tells you what they feel and think - you do not teach. You listen; you bear witness; you reassure because you understand the nature of grief.
Behind closed doors & brave smiles, there’s a whole bunch of us marching on private battles nobody knows about, climbing hard mountains that nobody sees, wrestling tough things that nobody has any idea about. But us? We do hard & holy things. We stay in the game. We stay in Him.
Forgiveness does NOT mean
I won’t ever talk about it
I won’t seek justice for it
I won’t be horrified by it
I won’t weep over it
I won’t be furious because of it
Forgiveness means
I won’t be enslaved by the never-ending pursuit of getting even