Tami

Économiste. Logisticien. Fonctionnaire. J'aime Mon Dieu, ma famille et ma vie !

[Tami @Tamiville]

@thatniggarhodes It's exhausting to see people doing this. The only day in a year set aside for fathers is still being usurped.

[Tami @Tamiville]

@Rise_Forge First time I'm seeing an immigration officer with a neck tie on this uniform. Can someone explain what this means?

[Tami @Tamiville]

@getpocketapp No more interest is earned on transactions even after several resets. What's happening?

[George Njoroge @georgenjoroge_]

THE END WE NEVER SAW COMING:

A GENERATION OF MEN WAKING UP TOO LATE

There is a truth almost all men only understand when they are older, a truth that arrives with a sting: 99.9% of us totally misjudged our fathers.

Many of us grew up closer to our mothers.
We heard her frustrations first.
We saw her sadness before we ever understood its source.
We believed her stories before we had the maturity to question them.
And slowly, quietly, we formed a picture of our fathers that was incomplete.

We thought he stayed out late because he didn’t care.
We thought he worked late because he didn’t love us.
We thought he kept to himself because he was a cold heartless man.

Nobody told us he worked late so we could have shoes he never owned.

Nobody told us the reason he looked tired most times wasn’t alcohol, it was responsibility.

Nobody told us he didn’t choose silence; he chose peace in a world that demanded strength from him every single day.

Nobody told us that the little he kept for himself came after everyone else had eaten.

Nobody told us that the roof over our heads was not “basic duty” it was sacrifice.

Nobody told us he carried storms we never saw.

We were too young to know truth.

Too naïve to see nuance.

Too quick to inherit someone else’s anger.

And now, look around.

A new generation of men is living the exact same story.

Men who promised themselves they would “be better fathers.”

Men who swore they would “never be like their dads.”

Men who gave their families more than their own fathers ever could; better schools, better homes, better food, better opportunities, better lives.

Men who carried the world and called it love.

But here they are now……sadly living the same loneliness their fathers died with.

The same silence.

The same emotional distance from their own children.

The same feeling of being unseen in their own homes.

The same exhaustion from providing while feeling unnecessary.

The same ache of realizing you gave everything and somehow still became the villain in the story.

It is only now, in this season of life, that many men whisper the words they once mocked:

“My father was not a weak man. He was a tired man.”

They finally understand that what they called “coldness” was actually worn-out patience.

What they called “distance” was actually pressure.

What they called “uncaring” was actually sacrifice no one bothered to explain.

A wise old man once said: “You will know your father was right the day life puts you in his shoes.”

And that day has arrived for many.

This is not about blaming anyone.

This is about acknowledging the wounds we inherited, the truths we ignored and the patterns we now see repeating in our own lives.

The lonely end of good men did not begin with us.

We are simply the first generation willing to speak it aloud.

Maybe the lesson is this: Men must learn to take care of themselves, not just everyone else.

Men must learn their value before the world teaches them otherwise.

Men must learn to speak before silence destroys them.

Men must learn that strength without support is just slow dying.

A generation of men is waking up today and finally whispering:

“Maybe my father wasn’t the problem.
Maybe he was the warning.”

[Tami @Tamiville]

@DejiAdesogan @Murtalaibin It's imperative that the Nigerian Police should no longer renegade their internal security roles to the Nigerian Armed Forces.

[Zagazola @ZagazOlaMakama]

The most admired CDS in history.

Thank you for your Service to the Nation

[Tami @Tamiville]

@MSIngawa This knee-jerk approach to changes in the downstream sector should hopefully benefit the average Nigerian eventually.

[Anthea Grace @anthea_grace]

Dark edition 🖤

[Tami @Tamiville]

@_whosmae_ You made his last days more pleasant. Thank you for your service to humanity

[Tami @Tamiville]

@NerdyDara Congratulations 🎊. I wish you success in your future endeavours

[Tami @Tamiville]

@PremiumTimesng Quite unfortunate that this was allowed to happen in the midst of high unemployment.

[Tami @Tamiville]

@DejiAdesogan Some have ulterior motives, so none should be trusted.

[Tami @Tamiville]

@piggyvest

[Tami @Tamiville]

@kokomatic That's a great one. You've done well

[Instablog9ja @instablog9ja]

They can't hear you at the back sir

[Tami @Tamiville]

@societyhatesjay I have been using one since 2022, and it's still working well

[Tami @Tamiville]

@omaa_oe Did the hen offend you?! As in.. maka why??

[DEFENCE HQ NIGERIA @DHQNigeria]

Up Coming: The Defence Headquarters Civil-Military Relations Documentary

[Tami @Tamiville]

@Allezamani 187

[Tami @Tamiville]

@FinPlanKaluAja1 No 3 would be difficult to accept. It could be recoined to state Russian occupation of ... which could be for a predetermined period say 20 years