No one has good times their entire life. You have to enjoy the good times knowing that there will be bad times ahead too. You have to cruise though the bad times knowing that they won't last forever.
Imagine being told what you want doesn’t matter and then they tell you a bunch of what they want, if what I want doesn’t matter why would I give a fuck about what you want
“I shouldn’t have to ask” comes from a place of trauma because yall aren’t used to ppl who WANT to lighten your load. It is emotionally immature to expect a person to know everything you need. You want ppl to guess things that they can’t anticipate & resent them when they don’t deliver. Grow up