@Maryamhasnaa Such simple,yet such profound advice. And it makes perfect sense, why would the person who is your divine counterpart not be wanting you exactly the way you want them? I think it's when you're still coming from a wounded perspective of yourself,an idea that you must work for love
Don't make the mistake of being so understanding and forgiving that you overlook the fact that you're being disrespected. Don't settle for anything less than you deserve. Remember, you teach people how to treat you by what you allow, what you reinforce, and what you stop.
Those of us who are spiritually trained need to continually do our shadowwork so we can go within to receive our instructions and not get lost in escapism. Those of us who are activists need to continually do our shadow work, so we don’t become the very thing we are opposing.
It’s great you did inner child and shadow work, but did you also do the energy work to actually embody and integrate that forgotten part of you back into the present moment. This explains why so many keep repeating the same lessons that have only been addressed intellectually.
Always remember that in order to truly learn a lesson, you will explore it from many angles.
That means sometimes you’re the one something it’s happening to and other times you’re the one it’s happening through. Just so you can examine it from all sides.
The universe is going to give you the exact same lesson in different versions over again until you master it. This is one of the most single important laws you can learn about the nature of reality. Everything else builds upon this.
One day I hope you wake up and realize you don’t need to keep trying to overcompensate for your childhood. I hope one day you feel comfortable being your authentic self. And I hope you find yourself surrounded by people who just love you for you. Not what you can do for them.
Even good people make mistakes. They treat people badly. They’re selfish at times. They do things they regret. Don’t let shame hold you captive. Move forward with integrity and transparency and slowly you’ll forgive yourself.
Your thoughts, beliefs, the stories you tell yourself etc. are all vehicles of creation. You are either hexing + binding yourself or you are freeing yourself and generating your own wind.