We can never know what to want, because, living only one life, we can neither compare it with our previous lives nor perfect it in our lives to come...
When one’s cup is full, when it runs over… that overflow becomes a blessing to everyone around them. That’s the love, patience, strength and energy one gives.
Things no one asked about:
Love is never any better than the lover. A lover can never give a love they don’t embody. A gentle lover can only ever give gentle love. A chaotic lover will only hand you chaos. You can never give what you don’t have.