spuffy is lowkey the best enemies to lovers out there because when she died instead losing his shit or focusing on his own pain he took care of her family
saying this when love is so intrinsic to buffy as a character and her dynamic with being a slayer/self worth. “love, give, forgive” the idea that falling in love would disempower her when having someone love her for who she is and not abandon her was something she always craved