I know the energy I exude & the positivity I bring into peoples lives. Anyone who gets a chance to experience me is lucky & I mean that in the most arrogant way possible.
People lack accountability and then say “you could’ve talked to me.” No, I couldn’t. You don’t listen or you deflect. You turn every concern into an attack, twist the conversation and somehow make yourself the victim. Talking to you doesn’t bring resolution, it leaves me exhausted. I don’t owe my peace to someone who only wants a conversation to win an argument instead of understand what I’m saying.
It’s like people be disturbed by the fact that I don’t need people the way that they do. Mind you I be loving people from the depths of me. But no, I don’t want to be or need to be attached at the hip for that to be understood.
Just apologize if you did some foul sht. All that flipping it around, being manipulative & acting mad bc someone mad at you when they got every reason to be, is weird asf. Mf swear they grown until it's time to be accountable.
I realized that when you’re a little too understanding, people slowly start becoming a little too comfortable overlooking your feelings. The more grace you give without boundaries, the easier it becomes for others to take your kindness for granted.
no shade, but i don't care to be in people's lives anymore. i'm pretty sure y'all noticed how distant i've became. i just don't got time for wishy washy ass behavior anymore & it takes nothing for me to never speak to certain people again
While I agree with this take I also feel like having cute workout clothes can also just make you feel good & that in itself can improve your relationship with the gym/exercise
My unpopular opinion is that gym fits are unnecessary and just another beauty standard that makes people, especially women, spend money. You can literally work out in a shirt and shorts.
some rules are made only for the people who are scary enough to really follow them like if you dead let your landlord tell you that you can’t work from home then that’s on you