I’m here to brag about how good I love my people. One thing about me? You will be clear you’re loved, you’ll be told, I will show up & you’ll be supported, you’ll be thought of and you will be considered. You will be loved loudly, adored fully. You will not doubt my love for you.
Being with a person or being friends with someone who says they don’t need anyone will actually cost you your mental health because what comes with that is the opposite of how “considerate” not needing people is supposed to be.
they stopped blaming their parents. their ex. their childhood. not because none of it hurt, but because they figured out they're the only one who can fix it now. the day you own your part is the day you get your power back.
Eish guys I wish everyone could see the other side of putting yourself out there. Take yourself less seriously and unlock so much more out of life. Nobody is thinking about your actions as deeply as you are, give yourself a break
I’ve actually come to realize that I’m very much a reciprocator. I actually follow how a person treats me then do exactly as they do. I initiate in relationships/friendships but overtime I’ll just show up the way you show up for me.
Being cheated on.
You will literally feel like you’re choking on your own heart or someone physically stabbed your heart continuously yet you’re still breathing.
I’m so lucky I have never I mean never had a boyfriend ask me for money. God has been faithful to me because whaaat???? 🫠 I just saw someone post about being traumatized by a man asking her to pay 50/50 for a date and I’m just grateful that has never ever happened to me.
I’ll never make the mistake of tolerating any form of disrespect traded off as “love” like the Bible says men should do for women, love them. Respect is the most important thing in any relationship and so is love. There should be no trade off really.
Because yall don’t understand idioms no more. It mean you can’t have it both ways. It don’t mean you literally can’t have cake. If you eat da cake it’s gone which means you can either eat da cake or not eat da cake.